"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Chilli bunnies on crack

seanconnery

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No, not really, but here's a chat log, beginning to end:

B: you know, you're a bit more transparent than you think you are
A: :-o
A: sounds too acme.
B: what sounds too acme
A: last i checked photons still bounce off me.
A: but please, continue.
B: i'm sure you know what i mean
A: mmm?
B: oh? you dont'?
B: don't believe that for a second.
A: i hope you don't think i'm a homo.
B: heh no i dont. you're too homophobic!
B: and oh well,i'll let you figure it out if you havent already
B: gonna go now
B: cyaa

I'd been going real heavy c/f on the victim earlier that night at a school event, and I pulled a "I think you're hanging around after class to get a chance to talk to me" earlier this week. Contact has been sparse - no more than a hi every few days in RL, and I'm rarely on IM.

Seems like she's just trying to throw the game back in my face, but I'm not sure. First time someone's done this - I'm not quite sure how to react, or if to react at all. Might try to bring it up come next week and lure her into the subject again and brush it off immediately with a "Bah, you and your sick sexual fantasies."

Anyone have a better idea?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ShizamDaMan

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I don't see any C+F in that convo. I don't even know who's who.
 

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A = me
B = her

Was tired, and she'd popped on and caught me at a bad time. The convo was on IM, mind you.

I'm pretty ****y, if not funny, in person. Still working on the humor bit.
 

Smooth as Anything

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No more ****ing AIM logs, thank you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ballistik

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She's saying you shallow. Go into the HS Bible and find Matrix's post on why ****y and Funny isn't the be-all end-all of how to act. I think it's exactly what you need to hear.
 

Porky

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FVCK AIM.

IT'S USELESS.

YOU CAN'T PICK UP WOMEN OVER IT.

STOP POSTIN LOGS.
 
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