"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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seanconnery

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No, not really, but here's a chat log, beginning to end:

B: you know, you're a bit more transparent than you think you are
A: :-o
A: sounds too acme.
B: what sounds too acme
A: last i checked photons still bounce off me.
A: but please, continue.
B: i'm sure you know what i mean
A: mmm?
B: oh? you dont'?
B: don't believe that for a second.
A: i hope you don't think i'm a homo.
B: heh no i dont. you're too homophobic!
B: and oh well,i'll let you figure it out if you havent already
B: gonna go now
B: cyaa

I'd been going real heavy c/f on the victim earlier that night at a school event, and I pulled a "I think you're hanging around after class to get a chance to talk to me" earlier this week. Contact has been sparse - no more than a hi every few days in RL, and I'm rarely on IM.

Seems like she's just trying to throw the game back in my face, but I'm not sure. First time someone's done this - I'm not quite sure how to react, or if to react at all. Might try to bring it up come next week and lure her into the subject again and brush it off immediately with a "Bah, you and your sick sexual fantasies."

Anyone have a better idea?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ShizamDaMan

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I don't see any C+F in that convo. I don't even know who's who.
 

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A = me
B = her

Was tired, and she'd popped on and caught me at a bad time. The convo was on IM, mind you.

I'm pretty ****y, if not funny, in person. Still working on the humor bit.
 

Smooth as Anything

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No more ****ing AIM logs, thank you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She's saying you shallow. Go into the HS Bible and find Matrix's post on why ****y and Funny isn't the be-all end-all of how to act. I think it's exactly what you need to hear.
 

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FVCK AIM.

IT'S USELESS.

YOU CAN'T PICK UP WOMEN OVER IT.

STOP POSTIN LOGS.
 
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