Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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seanconnery

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No, not really, but here's a chat log, beginning to end:

B: you know, you're a bit more transparent than you think you are
A: :-o
A: sounds too acme.
B: what sounds too acme
A: last i checked photons still bounce off me.
A: but please, continue.
B: i'm sure you know what i mean
A: mmm?
B: oh? you dont'?
B: don't believe that for a second.
A: i hope you don't think i'm a homo.
B: heh no i dont. you're too homophobic!
B: and oh well,i'll let you figure it out if you havent already
B: gonna go now
B: cyaa

I'd been going real heavy c/f on the victim earlier that night at a school event, and I pulled a "I think you're hanging around after class to get a chance to talk to me" earlier this week. Contact has been sparse - no more than a hi every few days in RL, and I'm rarely on IM.

Seems like she's just trying to throw the game back in my face, but I'm not sure. First time someone's done this - I'm not quite sure how to react, or if to react at all. Might try to bring it up come next week and lure her into the subject again and brush it off immediately with a "Bah, you and your sick sexual fantasies."

Anyone have a better idea?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ShizamDaMan

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I don't see any C+F in that convo. I don't even know who's who.
 

seanconnery

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A = me
B = her

Was tired, and she'd popped on and caught me at a bad time. The convo was on IM, mind you.

I'm pretty ****y, if not funny, in person. Still working on the humor bit.
 

Smooth as Anything

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No more ****ing AIM logs, thank you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She's saying you shallow. Go into the HS Bible and find Matrix's post on why ****y and Funny isn't the be-all end-all of how to act. I think it's exactly what you need to hear.
 

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FVCK AIM.

IT'S USELESS.

YOU CAN'T PICK UP WOMEN OVER IT.

STOP POSTIN LOGS.
 
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