Hey I was wondering how you guys feel about women who smoke. I notice a lot of hot chicks at bars smoking, but I find it a bit of a turnoff. Nicotine breath on a woman is really unattractive. I guess what I am asking is smoking an automatic deal killer?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Chicks who smoke
- Thread starter THE GOURD
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gustav Yavo
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 5, 2007
- Messages
- 116
- Reaction score
- 1
Unattractive, yes. Deal killer, no. Sadly alot of hot women smoke, well at least i my neck of the woods.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
My general rule is if it's a ONS or STR, I don't care. But LTR no way, couldn't stand being around cig smoke or that smell all the time. It is a turn off but if it's a one night thing I could care less.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
KarmaSutra
Banned
- Joined
- Oct 13, 2005
- Messages
- 4,818
- Reaction score
- 142
- Age
- 53
Goddamn you brothers are insidiously narrow and self absorbed. You need perspective. Don't think of things as a right here, right now mentality. Have a broader and more in depth view of women and, in particular, the value of choice. If a woman smokes who the fvck are you to give an opinion or worst deny her her opportunity to choose?
Granted, women have expectations of what she wants from her men, however, we all know that it's us who have the ultimate say of what we choose to give her. Why the sudden hypocrisy because she does something she wants that you don't approve of?
Granted, women have expectations of what she wants from her men, however, we all know that it's us who have the ultimate say of what we choose to give her. Why the sudden hypocrisy because she does something she wants that you don't approve of?
MooseGod
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 12, 2007
- Messages
- 785
- Reaction score
- 11
If she smokes, she pokes. 
KarmaSutra
Banned
- Joined
- Oct 13, 2005
- Messages
- 4,818
- Reaction score
- 142
- Age
- 53
Though it is not one of my Karmic Laws it is my theory that women who smoke, swallow. And they tend to be more explorative in thier sexuality.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
No, I smoke and smoked with women before. In fact, I've smoked weed with women before.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Teflon_Mcgee
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 3, 2006
- Messages
- 918
- Reaction score
- 27
Keep in my mind, alot of people who don't smoke will smoke in bars.
I think almost everybody I know will smoke while they drink in the bar and then never smoke outside the bar.
I think almost everybody I know will smoke while they drink in the bar and then never smoke outside the bar.
KarmaSutra
Banned
- Joined
- Oct 13, 2005
- Messages
- 4,818
- Reaction score
- 142
- Age
- 53
Teflon brings up a very interesting point. I too have noticed that people say: "Oh no, I'm not a smoker but I smoke when I drink." I believe these people harbor deep hangups about doing what they want without impunity due to guilt or self remorse or other bullsh!t excuses.
These chickensh!ts love to use the: "I'm drunk so go ahead and fvck me in all of my holes so I can use the excuse later on that I was drinking." When thier conscience is confronted and guilt kicks in.
These chickensh!ts love to use the: "I'm drunk so go ahead and fvck me in all of my holes so I can use the excuse later on that I was drinking." When thier conscience is confronted and guilt kicks in.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
You know, I noticed I never smoke alone. Smoking is something to elevate conversation in social gatherings. At least where I'm from, if you smoke alone, you're looked down upon.Teflon_Mcgee said:
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
Cigarettes are a turn-off but if a girl smokes blunts I think it's pretty sexy. Especially when we smoke a blunt together.