"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chicks who smoke

THE GOURD

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Hey I was wondering how you guys feel about women who smoke. I notice a lot of hot chicks at bars smoking, but I find it a bit of a turnoff. Nicotine breath on a woman is really unattractive. I guess what I am asking is smoking an automatic deal killer?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gustav Yavo

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Unattractive, yes. Deal killer, no. Sadly alot of hot women smoke, well at least i my neck of the woods.
 

DonJuan11

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THE GOURD said:
Hey I was wondering how you guys feel about women who smoke. I notice a lot of hot chicks at bars smoking, but I find it a bit of a turnoff. Nicotine breath on a woman is really unattractive. I guess what I am asking is smoking an automatic deal killer?
I'm not good looking enough to tell the girl that it will be a deal breaker.
 

The Inside Man

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My general rule is if it's a ONS or STR, I don't care. But LTR no way, couldn't stand being around cig smoke or that smell all the time. It is a turn off but if it's a one night thing I could care less.
 

Rex Man

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The only thing I like a woman smoking is my c0ck. That said, Inside Man sums it up for most non-smokers:

For the lay: Yes

For the long haul: No

For the Win: Rex Man!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KarmaSutra

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Goddamn you brothers are insidiously narrow and self absorbed. You need perspective. Don't think of things as a right here, right now mentality. Have a broader and more in depth view of women and, in particular, the value of choice. If a woman smokes who the fvck are you to give an opinion or worst deny her her opportunity to choose?

Granted, women have expectations of what she wants from her men, however, we all know that it's us who have the ultimate say of what we choose to give her. Why the sudden hypocrisy because she does something she wants that you don't approve of?
 

War Against Betaism

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No, I smoke and smoked with women before. In fact, I've smoked weed with women before.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Keep in my mind, alot of people who don't smoke will smoke in bars.

I think almost everybody I know will smoke while they drink in the bar and then never smoke outside the bar.
 

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Teflon brings up a very interesting point. I too have noticed that people say: "Oh no, I'm not a smoker but I smoke when I drink." I believe these people harbor deep hangups about doing what they want without impunity due to guilt or self remorse or other bullsh!t excuses.

These chickensh!ts love to use the: "I'm drunk so go ahead and fvck me in all of my holes so I can use the excuse later on that I was drinking." When thier conscience is confronted and guilt kicks in.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
Keep in my mind, alot of people who don't smoke will smoke in bars.

I think almost everybody I know will smoke while they drink in the bar and then never smoke outside the bar.
You know, I noticed I never smoke alone. Smoking is something to elevate conversation in social gatherings. At least where I'm from, if you smoke alone, you're looked down upon.
 

tsmith2334

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Cigarettes are a turn-off but if a girl smokes blunts I think it's pretty sexy. Especially when we smoke a blunt together.
 
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