Hey I was wondering how you guys feel about women who smoke. I notice a lot of hot chicks at bars smoking, but I find it a bit of a turnoff. Nicotine breath on a woman is really unattractive. I guess what I am asking is smoking an automatic deal killer?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Chicks who smoke
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Unattractive, yes. Deal killer, no. Sadly alot of hot women smoke, well at least i my neck of the woods.
The Inside Man
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My general rule is if it's a ONS or STR, I don't care. But LTR no way, couldn't stand being around cig smoke or that smell all the time. It is a turn off but if it's a one night thing I could care less.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Goddamn you brothers are insidiously narrow and self absorbed. You need perspective. Don't think of things as a right here, right now mentality. Have a broader and more in depth view of women and, in particular, the value of choice. If a woman smokes who the fvck are you to give an opinion or worst deny her her opportunity to choose?
Granted, women have expectations of what she wants from her men, however, we all know that it's us who have the ultimate say of what we choose to give her. Why the sudden hypocrisy because she does something she wants that you don't approve of?
Granted, women have expectations of what she wants from her men, however, we all know that it's us who have the ultimate say of what we choose to give her. Why the sudden hypocrisy because she does something she wants that you don't approve of?
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If she smokes, she pokes. 
KarmaSutra
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Though it is not one of my Karmic Laws it is my theory that women who smoke, swallow. And they tend to be more explorative in thier sexuality.
War Against Betaism
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No, I smoke and smoked with women before. In fact, I've smoked weed with women before.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Keep in my mind, alot of people who don't smoke will smoke in bars.
I think almost everybody I know will smoke while they drink in the bar and then never smoke outside the bar.
I think almost everybody I know will smoke while they drink in the bar and then never smoke outside the bar.
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Teflon brings up a very interesting point. I too have noticed that people say: "Oh no, I'm not a smoker but I smoke when I drink." I believe these people harbor deep hangups about doing what they want without impunity due to guilt or self remorse or other bullsh!t excuses.
These chickensh!ts love to use the: "I'm drunk so go ahead and fvck me in all of my holes so I can use the excuse later on that I was drinking." When thier conscience is confronted and guilt kicks in.
These chickensh!ts love to use the: "I'm drunk so go ahead and fvck me in all of my holes so I can use the excuse later on that I was drinking." When thier conscience is confronted and guilt kicks in.
War Against Betaism
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You know, I noticed I never smoke alone. Smoking is something to elevate conversation in social gatherings. At least where I'm from, if you smoke alone, you're looked down upon.Teflon_Mcgee said:
tsmith2334
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Cigarettes are a turn-off but if a girl smokes blunts I think it's pretty sexy. Especially when we smoke a blunt together.