I have the feeling that most chicks who are alone at these places studying are waiting to be picked up. I don't see why people would want to study in these places because there are constant distractions by people who walk in and out.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
chicks at bookstore and cafe place
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
FlawlessBadBoy
Don Juan
Good observation, but almost everywhere you go, women are waiting to be picked up. Just like you wish a girl would just come up to you and start talking, girls wish guys would get some balls and come up to them and talk to them.
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I'm at my best in these types of situations.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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You can go ahead and have all the girls with a scrotum, m'kay?Originally posted by christz
that's why they need to grow some scrotum
FlawlessBadBoy
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LoL, a stalker o na message board. Be careful to clothes your blinds when you type, he may have a "keyboard fetish."
I dont know if I'd say these girls are waiting to be picked up, but those types of girls in bookstores and cafes are, in my opinion, the best types of girls for LTR's.
It shows that they have culture, and they don't need a ditzy friend hanging around them at all times. They are socially secure with grabbing a bite to eat at the cafe alone or reading a book in the bookstore.
Are the waiting to be picked up ? Well, probably thats not their main intention, but I'm sure they wouldnt mind if you tried, huh ?
So grab your 3.75 inches of manhood, and approach them !
*3.75 being the average flaccid hang of men*
And your damn right i just looked up that fact
It shows that they have culture, and they don't need a ditzy friend hanging around them at all times. They are socially secure with grabbing a bite to eat at the cafe alone or reading a book in the bookstore.
Are the waiting to be picked up ? Well, probably thats not their main intention, but I'm sure they wouldnt mind if you tried, huh ?
So grab your 3.75 inches of manhood, and approach them !
*3.75 being the average flaccid hang of men*
And your damn right i just looked up that fact
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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lol...is marketboy cutiepie?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
skinnydart
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I went into Barnes and Nobles a few days ago to give it a try. The only hb's were not walking around but rather sitting at a table reading. I walked by a few times to see if I could test for EC but none of them even looked up. Maybe those cookbooks are more exciting than they appear.
So should I just walk up and interupt them? What's the best thing to say when they're busy reading?
So should I just walk up and interupt them? What's the best thing to say when they're busy reading?
alphamale1
Don Juan
Me: excuse me pardon me for interrupting but i just had to tell u......................i find you really attractive.
Her: thankyou
Me: my name is .........
(smile and look in her eyes, then start acting a little shy cos women love shy guys too ya know, adds more emphasis that she is ATTRACTIVE enough to make u shy)
Me: what are you reading?
Her: Cooking book
Me: Lets see if there is anything in there that we both would like.
Her: thankyou
Me: my name is .........
(smile and look in her eyes, then start acting a little shy cos women love shy guys too ya know, adds more emphasis that she is ATTRACTIVE enough to make u shy)
Me: what are you reading?
Her: Cooking book
Me: Lets see if there is anything in there that we both would like.