I have the feeling that most chicks who are alone at these places studying are waiting to be picked up. I don't see why people would want to study in these places because there are constant distractions by people who walk in and out.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
chicks at bookstore and cafe place
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
FlawlessBadBoy
Don Juan
Good observation, but almost everywhere you go, women are waiting to be picked up. Just like you wish a girl would just come up to you and start talking, girls wish guys would get some balls and come up to them and talk to them.
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I'm at my best in these types of situations.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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You can go ahead and have all the girls with a scrotum, m'kay?Originally posted by christz
that's why they need to grow some scrotum
FlawlessBadBoy
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LoL, a stalker o na message board. Be careful to clothes your blinds when you type, he may have a "keyboard fetish."
I dont know if I'd say these girls are waiting to be picked up, but those types of girls in bookstores and cafes are, in my opinion, the best types of girls for LTR's.
It shows that they have culture, and they don't need a ditzy friend hanging around them at all times. They are socially secure with grabbing a bite to eat at the cafe alone or reading a book in the bookstore.
Are the waiting to be picked up ? Well, probably thats not their main intention, but I'm sure they wouldnt mind if you tried, huh ?
So grab your 3.75 inches of manhood, and approach them !
*3.75 being the average flaccid hang of men*
And your damn right i just looked up that fact
It shows that they have culture, and they don't need a ditzy friend hanging around them at all times. They are socially secure with grabbing a bite to eat at the cafe alone or reading a book in the bookstore.
Are the waiting to be picked up ? Well, probably thats not their main intention, but I'm sure they wouldnt mind if you tried, huh ?
So grab your 3.75 inches of manhood, and approach them !
*3.75 being the average flaccid hang of men*
And your damn right i just looked up that fact
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
affliction
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lol...is marketboy cutiepie?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
skinnydart
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I went into Barnes and Nobles a few days ago to give it a try. The only hb's were not walking around but rather sitting at a table reading. I walked by a few times to see if I could test for EC but none of them even looked up. Maybe those cookbooks are more exciting than they appear.
So should I just walk up and interupt them? What's the best thing to say when they're busy reading?
So should I just walk up and interupt them? What's the best thing to say when they're busy reading?
alphamale1
Don Juan
Me: excuse me pardon me for interrupting but i just had to tell u......................i find you really attractive.
Her: thankyou
Me: my name is .........
(smile and look in her eyes, then start acting a little shy cos women love shy guys too ya know, adds more emphasis that she is ATTRACTIVE enough to make u shy)
Me: what are you reading?
Her: Cooking book
Me: Lets see if there is anything in there that we both would like.
Her: thankyou
Me: my name is .........
(smile and look in her eyes, then start acting a little shy cos women love shy guys too ya know, adds more emphasis that she is ATTRACTIVE enough to make u shy)
Me: what are you reading?
Her: Cooking book
Me: Lets see if there is anything in there that we both would like.