I have the feeling that most chicks who are alone at these places studying are waiting to be picked up. I don't see why people would want to study in these places because there are constant distractions by people who walk in and out.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
chicks at bookstore and cafe place
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
FlawlessBadBoy
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Good observation, but almost everywhere you go, women are waiting to be picked up. Just like you wish a girl would just come up to you and start talking, girls wish guys would get some balls and come up to them and talk to them.
jakethasnake
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I'm at my best in these types of situations.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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You can go ahead and have all the girls with a scrotum, m'kay?Originally posted by christz
that's why they need to grow some scrotum
FlawlessBadBoy
Don Juan
LoL, a stalker o na message board. Be careful to clothes your blinds when you type, he may have a "keyboard fetish."
I dont know if I'd say these girls are waiting to be picked up, but those types of girls in bookstores and cafes are, in my opinion, the best types of girls for LTR's.
It shows that they have culture, and they don't need a ditzy friend hanging around them at all times. They are socially secure with grabbing a bite to eat at the cafe alone or reading a book in the bookstore.
Are the waiting to be picked up ? Well, probably thats not their main intention, but I'm sure they wouldnt mind if you tried, huh ?
So grab your 3.75 inches of manhood, and approach them !
*3.75 being the average flaccid hang of men*
And your damn right i just looked up that fact
It shows that they have culture, and they don't need a ditzy friend hanging around them at all times. They are socially secure with grabbing a bite to eat at the cafe alone or reading a book in the bookstore.
Are the waiting to be picked up ? Well, probably thats not their main intention, but I'm sure they wouldnt mind if you tried, huh ?
So grab your 3.75 inches of manhood, and approach them !
*3.75 being the average flaccid hang of men*
And your damn right i just looked up that fact
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
affliction
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lol...is marketboy cutiepie?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
I went into Barnes and Nobles a few days ago to give it a try. The only hb's were not walking around but rather sitting at a table reading. I walked by a few times to see if I could test for EC but none of them even looked up. Maybe those cookbooks are more exciting than they appear.
So should I just walk up and interupt them? What's the best thing to say when they're busy reading?
So should I just walk up and interupt them? What's the best thing to say when they're busy reading?
alphamale1
Don Juan
Me: excuse me pardon me for interrupting but i just had to tell u......................i find you really attractive.
Her: thankyou
Me: my name is .........
(smile and look in her eyes, then start acting a little shy cos women love shy guys too ya know, adds more emphasis that she is ATTRACTIVE enough to make u shy)
Me: what are you reading?
Her: Cooking book
Me: Lets see if there is anything in there that we both would like.
Her: thankyou
Me: my name is .........
(smile and look in her eyes, then start acting a little shy cos women love shy guys too ya know, adds more emphasis that she is ATTRACTIVE enough to make u shy)
Me: what are you reading?
Her: Cooking book
Me: Lets see if there is anything in there that we both would like.