"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
chick with boyfriend....!
- Thread starter yama600rr
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Jeffst1980
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Why are you soliciting our advice if all you are going to do is insult us??
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
That is the way I believe. If she is attractive there is a 95% chance that she has a boyfriend. It is just the way things are. I have not seen evidence to the contrary so it only makes sense that solely going after girls that are single is just plain stupid.Kupid Diggs said:If she doesn't have a ring on her finger, I say she's fair game. Like you said yourself, most attractive girls are dealing with a dude on some type of level. Whether the dude is her boyfriend, her cut buddy, or whatever. She's fair game.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
yama600rr said:how am i suppose to make her dump her boyfriend if i dont do anything? you dumb fvck!!!!
oh yeah... everything is going just as planned!
I dont know what to say to that. Iv never seen someone react like that to advice given on this forum.
Go ahead and have her cheat on him. Hopefully in the future you have a girlfriend who doesnt stay faithful to you. I think its something you need to experience.
That, and hopefully you get hit by a bus on your way to work tomorrow and fall onto a syringe filled with AIDS as you hit the ground. Be a little more respectful of your fellow man. You've obviously never experienced this. If you had, you wouldn't be trying to get her to cheat.john paul said:Go ahead and have her cheat on him. Hopefully in the future you have a girlfriend who doesnt stay faithful to you. I think its something you need to experience.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
vonbock
Senior Don Juan
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
She has a boyfriend. Now she is looking for a girlfriend.yama600rr said:ok so i met this chick in my class recently. we always talk in class sit next to each other in class. always have great conversation. she has a boyfriend, but she still calls me and talk. like past couple nights we been talking for hours on the phone.
asked her to kick it this weekend, she tells me her bf is gonna be out of town for the next couple months for his job, so yeah we'll kick it this sometime this weekend.
girls can be very misleading sometimes, at times they seemed very interested and it turns out they just wanna be friends. its very hard to read a woman at times... so what do you guys think? she interested? or just friendly?
Hahaha. Sounds like you're applying for the position of emotional tampon. If you kick it this weekend, you better make a move. Boyfriends mean nothing, I'm fvcking a couple girls right now who both are supposedly in a "serious relationship". What's scary to me is the way in which they outright lie to their men's faces.yama600rr said:ok so i met this chick in my class recently. we always talk in class sit next to each other in class. always have great conversation. she has a boyfriend, but she still calls me and talk. like past couple nights we been talking for hours on the phone.
Miguel
Don Juan
However, you're a DJ or an aspiring DJ man. Remember to keep the other guy in mind, I remember once I went pratically insain over this one girl I wanted to date. (And she wanted me. It's a long story but we never hooked up, seperated, and still hate each other. Stupid AFC self.) Anyways, I remember that I would never steal her away because I did that stupid "she has a boy friend thing..." Well she definately would of prefered me, but I never ever made a move and I regret it too this day in my nightmares.
However, on that same note, I remember that their was an old friend of mine who's GF wanted me bad. The thing is, she's good looking (7-8) but I wouldn't touch her because I don't feel it was worth it too steal her away. it was the best choice I ever made, that same friend bailed me out of a cuban jail.
The thing I'm saying man, is do whatever the **** you want with this girl. but make sure you can live with your choice and you won't regret it. Sometimes the best thing to do is a snatch cause it's mutually liked, other times you gotta know that sometimes the best thing is to hit the next button and not care. just make sure you don't regret it.
DonGorgon
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.