"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
chick with boyfriend....!
- Thread starter yama600rr
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Jeffst1980
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Why are you soliciting our advice if all you are going to do is insult us??
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
That is the way I believe. If she is attractive there is a 95% chance that she has a boyfriend. It is just the way things are. I have not seen evidence to the contrary so it only makes sense that solely going after girls that are single is just plain stupid.Kupid Diggs said:If she doesn't have a ring on her finger, I say she's fair game. Like you said yourself, most attractive girls are dealing with a dude on some type of level. Whether the dude is her boyfriend, her cut buddy, or whatever. She's fair game.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
yama600rr said:how am i suppose to make her dump her boyfriend if i dont do anything? you dumb fvck!!!!
oh yeah... everything is going just as planned!
I dont know what to say to that. Iv never seen someone react like that to advice given on this forum.
Go ahead and have her cheat on him. Hopefully in the future you have a girlfriend who doesnt stay faithful to you. I think its something you need to experience.
That, and hopefully you get hit by a bus on your way to work tomorrow and fall onto a syringe filled with AIDS as you hit the ground. Be a little more respectful of your fellow man. You've obviously never experienced this. If you had, you wouldn't be trying to get her to cheat.john paul said:Go ahead and have her cheat on him. Hopefully in the future you have a girlfriend who doesnt stay faithful to you. I think its something you need to experience.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
vonbock
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Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
She has a boyfriend. Now she is looking for a girlfriend.yama600rr said:ok so i met this chick in my class recently. we always talk in class sit next to each other in class. always have great conversation. she has a boyfriend, but she still calls me and talk. like past couple nights we been talking for hours on the phone.
asked her to kick it this weekend, she tells me her bf is gonna be out of town for the next couple months for his job, so yeah we'll kick it this sometime this weekend.
girls can be very misleading sometimes, at times they seemed very interested and it turns out they just wanna be friends. its very hard to read a woman at times... so what do you guys think? she interested? or just friendly?
Hahaha. Sounds like you're applying for the position of emotional tampon. If you kick it this weekend, you better make a move. Boyfriends mean nothing, I'm fvcking a couple girls right now who both are supposedly in a "serious relationship". What's scary to me is the way in which they outright lie to their men's faces.yama600rr said:ok so i met this chick in my class recently. we always talk in class sit next to each other in class. always have great conversation. she has a boyfriend, but she still calls me and talk. like past couple nights we been talking for hours on the phone.
Miguel
Don Juan
However, you're a DJ or an aspiring DJ man. Remember to keep the other guy in mind, I remember once I went pratically insain over this one girl I wanted to date. (And she wanted me. It's a long story but we never hooked up, seperated, and still hate each other. Stupid AFC self.) Anyways, I remember that I would never steal her away because I did that stupid "she has a boy friend thing..." Well she definately would of prefered me, but I never ever made a move and I regret it too this day in my nightmares.
However, on that same note, I remember that their was an old friend of mine who's GF wanted me bad. The thing is, she's good looking (7-8) but I wouldn't touch her because I don't feel it was worth it too steal her away. it was the best choice I ever made, that same friend bailed me out of a cuban jail.
The thing I'm saying man, is do whatever the **** you want with this girl. but make sure you can live with your choice and you won't regret it. Sometimes the best thing to do is a snatch cause it's mutually liked, other times you gotta know that sometimes the best thing is to hit the next button and not care. just make sure you don't regret it.
DonGorgon
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.