"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chick Rapes Dude - Claims She Didn't Consent

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shi*t is f*cked up...

https://www.dailywire.com/news/43975/male-student-settles-university-after-being-ashe-schow

A male college student was incapacitated due to alcohol one night after a party when a female student engaged him in sexual activity. Even though the university knew the male student was too drunk to consent (based on the school’s own policies) it still suspended him after the female student claimed she was sexually assaulted. The school recently settled with the male student.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What a **** show
She accused him of rape 1st after jumping into his bed and starting kissing him after she knew he was incapacitated by alcohol
The guys got suspended from his college.
 

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Beyond this case...

What are young men in college (and all men) truly expected to do these days? Seriously... Is there any level of consent, where a man can be certain before proceeding, that he will no longer be at any risk of being accused/sued, should the woman change her of perception of the events later?
Imagine if the role where reverse, if he would have jump into her bed and done what she did.
10 year of prison min.
In situation like this it seems that how the women feels after the fact gives her the right to change her mind.
I wonder if its not some kind of revenge for him breaking up with her or something similar.
 

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I don't drink on first dates for precisely these reasons. It always makes the other party uneasy, but it should make them feel safe with me - safe that I'm not going to be able to claim too intoxicated to consent.

You guys promote alcohol as a social and sexual lubricant. "Tell her to grab a bottle of wine and come to my place"

Perhaps that advice needs to be the evaluated
 

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I don't drink on first dates for precisely these reasons. It always makes the other party uneasy, but it should make them feel safe with me - safe that I'm not going to be able to claim too intoxicated to consent.

You guys promote alcohol as a social and sexual lubricant. "Tell her to grab a bottle of wine and come to my place"

Perhaps that advice needs to be the evaluated
I suggest security cameras inside and around residence perimeter to verify proper conduct.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does that mean you're usually DTF on the first date?
Haha, I'm not DTF for a month or two. Alcohol never plays a role in that decision.

It's literally comical to see the unease when I say "diet Coke please"

"You don't drink? Why not?!" They say

"I like to get to know people without alcohol being a factor" I reply

They start to think I'm a recovering alcoholic, or that I must drink but have a problem that I'm afraid of showing.

I guess the majority of OLD chicks meet up, get hammered on his dime, and become belligerent.

That convo is always a fun few moments at the beginning of the date, lol
 

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I don't drink on first dates for precisely these reasons. It always makes the other party uneasy, but it should make them feel safe with me - safe that I'm not going to be able to claim too intoxicated to consent.

You guys promote alcohol as a social and sexual lubricant. "Tell her to grab a bottle of wine and come to my place"

Perhaps that advice needs to be the evaluated
Good on me I dont drink alcohol these days and neither goes to parties lol..
 

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Last dry date I had was a total nightmare, she was a clone of my recent ex in almost every way so I had to sit there stone cold sober getting triggered haha.
Haha, they can drink if they want, I don't care about that. I just realized that I wasn't screening well after the alcohol hit me, so I changed that. I eventually drink, after I know (sober) that I like and want to be around this person.

I've heard some funny stories (funny to hear about, not funny they had to live thru) about guys drinking to excess on blind dates b/c she misrepresented herself. So no bueno when that happens.

Why didn't you drink?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Imagine if the role where reverse, if he would have jump into her bed and done what she did.
10 year of prison min.
In situation like this it seems that how the women feels after the fact gives her the right to change her mind.
I wonder if its not some kind of revenge for him breaking up with her or something similar.
I vid all sex and I keep nudes, sexting, and anything. All archived. Women are weaponized and the culture encourages victimhood.
 

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Even though the university knew the male student was too drunk to consent (based on the school’s own policies) it still suspended him after the female student claimed she was sexually assaulted.
Love to read that policy manual.

“If you are inebriated, you can’t give consent. Unless a female tries to have sex with you, then everything depends on the court of public opinion.”
 
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