"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chick Rapes Dude - Claims She Didn't Consent

taiyuu_otoko

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shi*t is f*cked up...

https://www.dailywire.com/news/43975/male-student-settles-university-after-being-ashe-schow

A male college student was incapacitated due to alcohol one night after a party when a female student engaged him in sexual activity. Even though the university knew the male student was too drunk to consent (based on the school’s own policies) it still suspended him after the female student claimed she was sexually assaulted. The school recently settled with the male student.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What a **** show
She accused him of rape 1st after jumping into his bed and starting kissing him after she knew he was incapacitated by alcohol
The guys got suspended from his college.
 

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Beyond this case...

What are young men in college (and all men) truly expected to do these days? Seriously... Is there any level of consent, where a man can be certain before proceeding, that he will no longer be at any risk of being accused/sued, should the woman change her of perception of the events later?
Imagine if the role where reverse, if he would have jump into her bed and done what she did.
10 year of prison min.
In situation like this it seems that how the women feels after the fact gives her the right to change her mind.
I wonder if its not some kind of revenge for him breaking up with her or something similar.
 

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I don't drink on first dates for precisely these reasons. It always makes the other party uneasy, but it should make them feel safe with me - safe that I'm not going to be able to claim too intoxicated to consent.

You guys promote alcohol as a social and sexual lubricant. "Tell her to grab a bottle of wine and come to my place"

Perhaps that advice needs to be the evaluated
 

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I don't drink on first dates for precisely these reasons. It always makes the other party uneasy, but it should make them feel safe with me - safe that I'm not going to be able to claim too intoxicated to consent.

You guys promote alcohol as a social and sexual lubricant. "Tell her to grab a bottle of wine and come to my place"

Perhaps that advice needs to be the evaluated
I suggest security cameras inside and around residence perimeter to verify proper conduct.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does that mean you're usually DTF on the first date?
Haha, I'm not DTF for a month or two. Alcohol never plays a role in that decision.

It's literally comical to see the unease when I say "diet Coke please"

"You don't drink? Why not?!" They say

"I like to get to know people without alcohol being a factor" I reply

They start to think I'm a recovering alcoholic, or that I must drink but have a problem that I'm afraid of showing.

I guess the majority of OLD chicks meet up, get hammered on his dime, and become belligerent.

That convo is always a fun few moments at the beginning of the date, lol
 

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I don't drink on first dates for precisely these reasons. It always makes the other party uneasy, but it should make them feel safe with me - safe that I'm not going to be able to claim too intoxicated to consent.

You guys promote alcohol as a social and sexual lubricant. "Tell her to grab a bottle of wine and come to my place"

Perhaps that advice needs to be the evaluated
Good on me I dont drink alcohol these days and neither goes to parties lol..
 

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Last dry date I had was a total nightmare, she was a clone of my recent ex in almost every way so I had to sit there stone cold sober getting triggered haha.
Haha, they can drink if they want, I don't care about that. I just realized that I wasn't screening well after the alcohol hit me, so I changed that. I eventually drink, after I know (sober) that I like and want to be around this person.

I've heard some funny stories (funny to hear about, not funny they had to live thru) about guys drinking to excess on blind dates b/c she misrepresented herself. So no bueno when that happens.

Why didn't you drink?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Imagine if the role where reverse, if he would have jump into her bed and done what she did.
10 year of prison min.
In situation like this it seems that how the women feels after the fact gives her the right to change her mind.
I wonder if its not some kind of revenge for him breaking up with her or something similar.
I vid all sex and I keep nudes, sexting, and anything. All archived. Women are weaponized and the culture encourages victimhood.
 

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Even though the university knew the male student was too drunk to consent (based on the school’s own policies) it still suspended him after the female student claimed she was sexually assaulted.
Love to read that policy manual.

“If you are inebriated, you can’t give consent. Unless a female tries to have sex with you, then everything depends on the court of public opinion.”
 
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