PrettyBoyAJ
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If you haven't slept with a chick after 3 dates it's time to cut it off. No questions about that. 3 dates and she hasn't come to the house? Sounds like she is using you for a free meal and some attention.
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Chick not comfortable with meeting at my house...Advice
- Thread starter dustmuffin
- Start date
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
CMNILS87
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How old is this chickiepoo @dustmuffin ?
dustmuffin
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That's what I'm thinking. I have had three drink dates with her. I'm leaning toward following the advice of some posters and asking her over to cook a meal together. I really don't want to be her free etertainment.
She is 40, I'm 52.
dustmuffin
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She agreed to come over and grill and watch the basketball game on sunday.
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Game over bro, good work. Now threaten her with a good time.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
dustmuffin
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Thanks everybody for the advice. I appreciate it very much.
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The pum pum is ready.
RangerMIke
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Very good sign... she is clearly VERY interested.
Nice response, Good job. When a women gets all serious about anything tease her a bit and try to turn it sexual.
Okay... how did you ask her out the last time? Did you make a date on the spot? If you did, and you didn't do the same after date 2 then she is trying to rationalize your actions, meaning she is thinking about you. When a women reaches out to you she expects you to make a date. If you want to go out with her, go ahead and make a date. Keep doing what you are doing, don't stop asking her to come back with you, trust me. She wants you to keep pushing for sex because that is what a MAN does. But you make her feel comfortable and confident when you don't let her rebuff effect you.
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I waited 2 or three days to ask her out. I text very little with her. I will defiantly be escalating on sunday.