Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Chick checking out my shoes...

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So, I walked around the Hollywood areas last night (clubs everywhere), and I was jotting down keys on my cellphones texting a friend. Another friend of mine was walking behind me, and we passed by a group of folks, one of them was a chick. I just glanced forward to make sure that I didn't bump into them, happened to make a small eye contact to her. She was quite hot, wearing a short short, exposing her long legs. My attention went back to my cellphone. After we passed by, my friend said to me, "that chick was checking out your shoes".

I was wearing black pants, black shoes, and black socks, it's tough to notice anything and and I don't think there was anything to look at on my shoes. I am still wondering at what this body language means. I have never run into chicks looking down at my shoes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cr1msonKing said:
Wow, you are extremely over analyzing this situation right now bro.

I was prone to this too when I first started to reprogram myself and learning new things about social interactions with people and especially girls.

Just sit down and think for a moment, was it that big of a deal.
I am asking questions about female body language. I am not insecure about my shoes, foo.
 

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lol, so what if she looked at your shoes!!! big deal! maybe she thought your shoes looked gay, or black was her favorite color. what's gonna happen next time a girl looks at your shirt? are you gonna over analyze that too?
 

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And this is a great opener !

"Hey ! Why are you looking at my shoes ?" or stuff like that... ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Buy some blue suede shoes and tell her your name is Elvis.
 

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she was a buyer for Bloomingdale's and just doing her job.
 

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Oh you know what?

She thought you were gorgeous and she looked down on your shoes to memorize them.

Later she'll spend 13242354 hours to find your shoes online just to check out the store you bought them hoping to see you there once a year...

And if she succeeds, you'll marry her.

Yeah, that's what "this body language" means.

Good luck in finding your long legged princess.
 

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Dude, it can mean many things.....maybe she thought they were ugly, maybe she thought they were some expensive fashionable kind...we don't know.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You shoulda punched her in the teeth...clearly she was challenging your alphaness.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
You shoulda punched her in the teeth...clearly she was challenging your alphaness.
Actually, he should have just kicked her right smack in her huge hairy testicles. That should put his shoes too good use.
 

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Dude, it wasn't your shoes! It was that damn stain on your pants....or she could be checking your a$$. Who cares?

This is a good reason to always take care of your shoes I suppose.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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