"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Chick checking out my shoes...

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So, I walked around the Hollywood areas last night (clubs everywhere), and I was jotting down keys on my cellphones texting a friend. Another friend of mine was walking behind me, and we passed by a group of folks, one of them was a chick. I just glanced forward to make sure that I didn't bump into them, happened to make a small eye contact to her. She was quite hot, wearing a short short, exposing her long legs. My attention went back to my cellphone. After we passed by, my friend said to me, "that chick was checking out your shoes".

I was wearing black pants, black shoes, and black socks, it's tough to notice anything and and I don't think there was anything to look at on my shoes. I am still wondering at what this body language means. I have never run into chicks looking down at my shoes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cr1msonKing said:
Wow, you are extremely over analyzing this situation right now bro.

I was prone to this too when I first started to reprogram myself and learning new things about social interactions with people and especially girls.

Just sit down and think for a moment, was it that big of a deal.
I am asking questions about female body language. I am not insecure about my shoes, foo.
 

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lol, so what if she looked at your shoes!!! big deal! maybe she thought your shoes looked gay, or black was her favorite color. what's gonna happen next time a girl looks at your shirt? are you gonna over analyze that too?
 

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And this is a great opener !

"Hey ! Why are you looking at my shoes ?" or stuff like that... ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Buy some blue suede shoes and tell her your name is Elvis.
 

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she was a buyer for Bloomingdale's and just doing her job.
 

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Oh you know what?

She thought you were gorgeous and she looked down on your shoes to memorize them.

Later she'll spend 13242354 hours to find your shoes online just to check out the store you bought them hoping to see you there once a year...

And if she succeeds, you'll marry her.

Yeah, that's what "this body language" means.

Good luck in finding your long legged princess.
 

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Dude, it can mean many things.....maybe she thought they were ugly, maybe she thought they were some expensive fashionable kind...we don't know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You shoulda punched her in the teeth...clearly she was challenging your alphaness.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
You shoulda punched her in the teeth...clearly she was challenging your alphaness.
Actually, he should have just kicked her right smack in her huge hairy testicles. That should put his shoes too good use.
 

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Dude, it wasn't your shoes! It was that damn stain on your pants....or she could be checking your a$$. Who cares?

This is a good reason to always take care of your shoes I suppose.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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