You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lmao, How the hell can you calibrate your brain to this reality? I mean it's just so fvcking unbelievable. Is the answer that you made them feel emotional fluctuation (emotional excitement) and that's what made them wet? Or do they somehow need to feel like they are beneath you? Or is it something else? There must be an answer, some code that our brains can read, even if it has to be translated from their different programming language.All the satisfaction I got from girls and women all came from me being an assh0le, anytime I tried to play nice cause somebody told me its the right way I failed or had sub optimal results.
I had really hot girls way above my league to give themselves to me after I insulted or mocked them.
A girl in particular kissed me after I told her "you surely a sexy b1tch too bad you're not the sharpest tool in the arsenal", an other one played hard to get till one day at the club I looked at a pretty girl and told her to go away otherwise they will think that Im not available, had sex the following day.
Whoever programmed their brain os was either on his first day at work or skipped most of the programming classes.
No idea most of them seems to me like a car with a faulty engine where someone with no idea about it had to put inside all the parts trying to connect them when possible but with no particular criteria.Lmao, How the hell can you calibrate your brain to this reality? I mean it's just so fvcking unbelievable. Is the answer that you made them feel emotional fluctuation (emotional excitement) and that's what made them wet? Or do they somehow need to feel like they are beneath you? Or is it something else? There must be an answer, some code that our brains can read, even if it has to be translated from their different programming language.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I miss my ex from years ago. That fvcking ho was fun to be with and enjoyable companionship, "my girl".just act with your own masculinity and stop censoring yourself like your mother and society trained you. "Be yourself" is accidentally the best advice that can be given.
Very well said "stop censoring yourself" is one of the best advices to give to the average man nowadays.just act with your own masculinity and stop censoring yourself like your mother and society trained you. "Be yourself" is accidentally the best advice that can be given.