Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lmao, How the hell can you calibrate your brain to this reality? I mean it's just so fvcking unbelievable. Is the answer that you made them feel emotional fluctuation (emotional excitement) and that's what made them wet? Or do they somehow need to feel like they are beneath you? Or is it something else? There must be an answer, some code that our brains can read, even if it has to be translated from their different programming language.All the satisfaction I got from girls and women all came from me being an assh0le, anytime I tried to play nice cause somebody told me its the right way I failed or had sub optimal results.
I had really hot girls way above my league to give themselves to me after I insulted or mocked them.
A girl in particular kissed me after I told her "you surely a sexy b1tch too bad you're not the sharpest tool in the arsenal", an other one played hard to get till one day at the club I looked at a pretty girl and told her to go away otherwise they will think that Im not available, had sex the following day.
Whoever programmed their brain os was either on his first day at work or skipped most of the programming classes.
No idea most of them seems to me like a car with a faulty engine where someone with no idea about it had to put inside all the parts trying to connect them when possible but with no particular criteria.Lmao, How the hell can you calibrate your brain to this reality? I mean it's just so fvcking unbelievable. Is the answer that you made them feel emotional fluctuation (emotional excitement) and that's what made them wet? Or do they somehow need to feel like they are beneath you? Or is it something else? There must be an answer, some code that our brains can read, even if it has to be translated from their different programming language.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I miss my ex from years ago. That fvcking ho was fun to be with and enjoyable companionship, "my girl".just act with your own masculinity and stop censoring yourself like your mother and society trained you. "Be yourself" is accidentally the best advice that can be given.
Very well said "stop censoring yourself" is one of the best advices to give to the average man nowadays.just act with your own masculinity and stop censoring yourself like your mother and society trained you. "Be yourself" is accidentally the best advice that can be given.