You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
0:40-0:48 Whatever problems exist within "The System" at present (The absence of shared parenting legislation disproportionately affects men. Childcare being tough to access in many parts of The Anglosphere makes life more complicated for working women and their husband's alike. The list could go on), the fundamentals of human existence haven't changed... Stop making your own self-care a priority, and the obvious consequences will befall you. Everyone from your lovers, colleagues, and acquaintes will begin to vanish. Why? Because miserable people are contagious
Yup, this does happen.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Finding women who engage in regular self-reflection, and who cultivate their minds with material such asEven though the cat’s out of the bag, men aren’t going to put women in line any time soon.
Considering the aims of most on this board, I’ve often wondered why anyone wants good behavior from women
Women are born savage and most are inherently not marriage material. They need to be raised right and their behavior policed by family and society to be so as was historically done. Otherwise you get the sh-t in the videos the OP routinely posts.Finding women who engage in regular self-reflection, and who cultivate their minds with material such as(Especially everything said between 15:00-17:35 22:00-23:12 24:20-24:50 33:48-34:25) , rather than getting their entire perspective from Julia Fox's podcast, drastically reduces the level of melodrama a man invites into his existence, right off the bat
Yeah, one has to hunt around for high-quality women like these, just as one has to hunt around for well-paying employers who treat their workers respectfully, nutritious food, etc etc. Such is life
They're human beings, in other words. When behaviors like being well-groomed/Not leaving the house looking like a ragamuffinThey need to be raised right and their behavior policed by family and society...
Does that go for telling daughters not to leave the house with their vulvas showing?Not leaving the house looking like a ragamuffin
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If she isn't having and initiating sex regularly when married chances are this is true.Unfortunately very true. So many guys don't understand that just because she's married to you it doesn't mean she's attracted to you.
Even just getting married doesn't mean much.If she isn't having and initiating sex regularly when married chances are this is true.
Is there a recourse for men who want to get married and start a family? Got any tips?So many guys don't understand that just because she's married to you it doesn't mean she's attracted to you.
Yep, along with reminding their/our sons that walking around with their asses and underwear hanging out, despite the fact they're wearing jeans or slacks + Speaking exclusively in either ebonics or Internet jargon reflects poorly on MEN as a classDoes that go for telling daughters not to leave the house with their vulvas showing?
Always make sure that she has high genuine attraction to you and get an enforceable prenuptial. Always do your due diligence with a woman.Is there a recourse for men who want to get married and start a family? Got any tips?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Absolutely!!! Undesirable and asinine as MeToo was, women didn't/haven't stop drenching themselves over 50 Shades, 365 Days, and the like. If anything, heterosexual chicks are MORE hungry for male assertiveness and leadership than usualThat means this is the best time to be a DJ
Sex diminishes greatly after getting married (ask almost any married guy) and in many cases comes to a grinding halt (15-20% of all marriages are sexless). Other people quit taking care of themselves or even caring because "I'm married, what does it matter." It's a strong sign someone is cheating if they suddenly start really caring about appearance again.Even just getting married doesn't mean much.
Ever notice chubby recently divorced women start looking good again? Hmmm.Sex diminishes greatly after getting married (ask almost any married guy) and in many cases comes to a grinding halt (15-20% of all marriages are sexless). Other people quit taking care of themselves or even caring because "I'm married, what does it matter." It's a strong sign someone is cheating if they suddenly start really caring about appearance again.
Could there be a connection between folks not looking after themselves once married and so many unions becoming sexless? This is a greater mystery than a question such as: "Does colonialism bear some(Though certainly not all)responsibility fot the so-called 3rd World being a violent, repressive shi-hole today?"Sex diminishes greatly after getting married (ask almost any married guy) and in many cases comes to a grinding halt (15-20% of all marriages are sexless). Other people quit taking care of themselves or even caring because "I'm married, what does it matter."
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.