"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Cheating
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
KontrollerX
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Unless the committed relationship you are in is an open relationship where you two can go find other people to screw your brains out with but still remain together.
Then it would be ok otherwise no its cheating.
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I always draw the same rules. You can go to dinner, have a date with someone, kiss them, whatever. Competition is fair play. Whatever you do, just TELL ME about it right away. If you kiss somebody, no big deal. If you sleep with them, that's cool too but we're over.
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Are you sexing her?Vikman said:
There is no such thing as "cheating" if you are having sex with her and not married!! You can only cheat on your wife - which is a committed relationship!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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No - the same applies! You are merely sex partners - nothing more! No such thing as B/F G/F!LovelyLady said:
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Of course. We must have absolute double standards. If a women even looks at another guy she is cheating. But as long as a man uses a condom, so technically there was no skin contact between the dong and the V, then it's clearly not cheating.LovelyLady said:
