"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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- Thread starter Vikman
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Unless the committed relationship you are in is an open relationship where you two can go find other people to screw your brains out with but still remain together.
Then it would be ok otherwise no its cheating.
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I always draw the same rules. You can go to dinner, have a date with someone, kiss them, whatever. Competition is fair play. Whatever you do, just TELL ME about it right away. If you kiss somebody, no big deal. If you sleep with them, that's cool too but we're over.
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Are you sexing her?Vikman said:
There is no such thing as "cheating" if you are having sex with her and not married!! You can only cheat on your wife - which is a committed relationship!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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No - the same applies! You are merely sex partners - nothing more! No such thing as B/F G/F!LovelyLady said:
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Of course. We must have absolute double standards. If a women even looks at another guy she is cheating. But as long as a man uses a condom, so technically there was no skin contact between the dong and the V, then it's clearly not cheating.LovelyLady said:
