"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
KontrollerX
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Unless the committed relationship you are in is an open relationship where you two can go find other people to screw your brains out with but still remain together.
Then it would be ok otherwise no its cheating.
superchristx
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I always draw the same rules. You can go to dinner, have a date with someone, kiss them, whatever. Competition is fair play. Whatever you do, just TELL ME about it right away. If you kiss somebody, no big deal. If you sleep with them, that's cool too but we're over.
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Are you sexing her?Vikman said:
There is no such thing as "cheating" if you are having sex with her and not married!! You can only cheat on your wife - which is a committed relationship!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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No - the same applies! You are merely sex partners - nothing more! No such thing as B/F G/F!LovelyLady said:
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Of course. We must have absolute double standards. If a women even looks at another guy she is cheating. But as long as a man uses a condom, so technically there was no skin contact between the dong and the V, then it's clearly not cheating.LovelyLady said:
