"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thekcguyme

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Where are some good places to meet women at? I met an off duty bartender at applebees yesterday at applesbees, but she turned out to be a freak. Plus I can't really afford to just hang out of bars any more. So wheres a cheap place to go?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Drewskie

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Good question, although you'll probably get a lot of "anywhere" responses. It's an easy answer, but at night it's a lil more difficult to find places other than bars and clubs.
 

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Right about now, there's a thread I made on a chick on a bus-stop. As Drew says, the easy way to say it is to say "anywhere", I'll try to go further:

Try to take public transportation as much as possible, walk around as much as you can, when you're going to eat, try going some place public. Try to be in public as much as you can. That way, you'll put yourself in a situation where you'll meet women.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Star bucks.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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thekcguyme

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Good suggestions thanks for the info. I'ven been more and more open to talking to people lately and I've had a lot of good luck. I'll give your ideas a shot. Hopefully I can make a lot of new friends too. Some chicks like that bartender are really crazy tho. I hope i meet some better ones.
 
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Anywhere from the moment you wake up till the moment that you lay your head down to sleep.

That includes from the moment you walk outside of your home. I have to include the home since there is also internet dating.

And don't listen to FOOLs who say it isn't a good place to meet women.
 
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