"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Where are some good places to meet women at? I met an off duty bartender at applebees yesterday at applesbees, but she turned out to be a freak. Plus I can't really afford to just hang out of bars any more. So wheres a cheap place to go?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good question, although you'll probably get a lot of "anywhere" responses. It's an easy answer, but at night it's a lil more difficult to find places other than bars and clubs.
 
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Right about now, there's a thread I made on a chick on a bus-stop. As Drew says, the easy way to say it is to say "anywhere", I'll try to go further:

Try to take public transportation as much as possible, walk around as much as you can, when you're going to eat, try going some place public. Try to be in public as much as you can. That way, you'll put yourself in a situation where you'll meet women.
 
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Star bucks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good suggestions thanks for the info. I'ven been more and more open to talking to people lately and I've had a lot of good luck. I'll give your ideas a shot. Hopefully I can make a lot of new friends too. Some chicks like that bartender are really crazy tho. I hope i meet some better ones.
 
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Anywhere from the moment you wake up till the moment that you lay your head down to sleep.

That includes from the moment you walk outside of your home. I have to include the home since there is also internet dating.

And don't listen to FOOLs who say it isn't a good place to meet women.
 
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