"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thekcguyme

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Where are some good places to meet women at? I met an off duty bartender at applebees yesterday at applesbees, but she turned out to be a freak. Plus I can't really afford to just hang out of bars any more. So wheres a cheap place to go?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Drewskie

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Good question, although you'll probably get a lot of "anywhere" responses. It's an easy answer, but at night it's a lil more difficult to find places other than bars and clubs.
 

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Right about now, there's a thread I made on a chick on a bus-stop. As Drew says, the easy way to say it is to say "anywhere", I'll try to go further:

Try to take public transportation as much as possible, walk around as much as you can, when you're going to eat, try going some place public. Try to be in public as much as you can. That way, you'll put yourself in a situation where you'll meet women.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Star bucks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thekcguyme

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Good suggestions thanks for the info. I'ven been more and more open to talking to people lately and I've had a lot of good luck. I'll give your ideas a shot. Hopefully I can make a lot of new friends too. Some chicks like that bartender are really crazy tho. I hope i meet some better ones.
 
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Anywhere from the moment you wake up till the moment that you lay your head down to sleep.

That includes from the moment you walk outside of your home. I have to include the home since there is also internet dating.

And don't listen to FOOLs who say it isn't a good place to meet women.
 
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