"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thekcguyme

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Where are some good places to meet women at? I met an off duty bartender at applebees yesterday at applesbees, but she turned out to be a freak. Plus I can't really afford to just hang out of bars any more. So wheres a cheap place to go?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good question, although you'll probably get a lot of "anywhere" responses. It's an easy answer, but at night it's a lil more difficult to find places other than bars and clubs.
 

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Right about now, there's a thread I made on a chick on a bus-stop. As Drew says, the easy way to say it is to say "anywhere", I'll try to go further:

Try to take public transportation as much as possible, walk around as much as you can, when you're going to eat, try going some place public. Try to be in public as much as you can. That way, you'll put yourself in a situation where you'll meet women.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Star bucks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thekcguyme

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Good suggestions thanks for the info. I'ven been more and more open to talking to people lately and I've had a lot of good luck. I'll give your ideas a shot. Hopefully I can make a lot of new friends too. Some chicks like that bartender are really crazy tho. I hope i meet some better ones.
 
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Anywhere from the moment you wake up till the moment that you lay your head down to sleep.

That includes from the moment you walk outside of your home. I have to include the home since there is also internet dating.

And don't listen to FOOLs who say it isn't a good place to meet women.
 
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