“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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charmer or jerk?

charmer or jerk?

  • charmer

    Votes: 22 88.0%
  • jerk

    Votes: 3 12.0%

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nosmirk

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which is more effective in actually attracting AND keeping on to a LTR target?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PigAdlemPimp

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I've never known of a JERK who really ATTRACTED any pretty ladies though I have met many CHARMERS who have, the answer to this stupid question should be OBVIOUS. :crazy:
 

everywomanshero

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Being a jerk is a negative emotion. Women avoid negative emotions like the plague. Being a jerk == the nasty nerd

Being "too nice" and being a jerk are both types of insecurity. They are afraid to just truly be themselves and just "be", so they try to compensate by acting aloof, trying hard to act cool or like they don't care, becoming dismissive or never asking a woman out to protect their fragile male egos from rejection.

This stuff repulses women as they know an insecure, needy man like a guy can spot a 500lbs fat chick with warts.
 

Jariel

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everywomanshero said:
Being a jerk is a negative emotion. Women avoid negative emotions like the plague. Being a jerk == the nasty nerd

Being "too nice" and being a jerk are both types of insecurity. They are afraid to just truly be themselves and just "be", so they try to compensate by acting aloof, trying hard to act cool or like they don't care, becoming dismissive or never asking a woman out to protect their fragile male egos from rejection.

This stuff repulses women as they know an insecure, needy man like a guy can spot a 500lbs fat chick with warts.
Wise words once again!

Enough said! :up:
 

Skilla_Staz

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Charming is more effective than being a jerk. If I had to be one for the rest of my life, it's a charmer. It's gotten me out of trouble both legal and female related, and I get where I want with charm, rather than my attitude (which shows up sometimes to spice things up).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DarkLight

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Think about it what qualities each expresses.

Naturally the Charmer, would be the better of the 2.
-Intelligence
-Tact
-Savvy
-Suave
-Power
-Courage (cause charmer's usually take risks)
-Class (status)
etc etc etc.

A jerk, while he might have a spine and some balls... lacks the elegance of higher ground.
He's like a lump of coal, yet to be refined into his diamond potential (a Charmer).

Answer is clear!
A greater point to this thread... might be for the original poster to discuss his confusion as to why this is even a question.
Then maybe others will be able to untangle themselves from such lines of thought.

Peace'
 

Sean O

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Awesome post, everywomanshero. Couldn't have put it better myself.

At best, a jerk's false bravado might land him a one-night-stand. He'll NEVER be able to keep a girl for long afterwards.
 
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