"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Charisma Development??

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hey fellas, havent been on in a long while

I was just wondering if there are ways to develop charisma thus being a more fun person to be around?

or is it just something you're born with? or does it have to do with just having a "I dont give a fcuk" attitude?

thanks!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Charisma is a combination of things.
Appearance, body language, and posture, tone of voice, facial expressions, interesting conversationalist, and being proper, poised, and saying the right thing at the right time.
 
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Interceptor said:
Charisma is a combination of things.
Appearance, body language, and posture, tone of voice, facial expressions, interesting conversationalist, and being proper, poised, and saying the right thing at the right time.
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Said like this, it looks hard to be charismatic :D
 
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You're right. It means you have to have.....a Personality.


So much for that one, huh???
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Oh well, there's always more MM, and Deangelo..and money for everyone else.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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BannedGod said:
Said like this, it looks hard to be charismatic :D
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How about this, being charismatic is like spinning plates, but it's in real time using all the people who are around you. :up:
 
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jt the azn said:
Like anything else in life, practice makes perfect.
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Actually, that's not an acurate statement. Perfect practice makes perfect. One can practice something the wrong way, and they'll learn how to do it perfectly wrong.
 
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Hence the phrase my drum teacher always used to say... "Practice makes PERMANENT"
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Wow, I like that one too. He's right.
 
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Interceptor said:
Charisma is a combination of things.
Appearance, body language, and posture, tone of voice, facial expressions, interesting conversationalist, and being proper, poised, and saying the right thing at the right time.
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So... appearance development? body language development? posture development? tone of voice development? "being proper" development?

and the most difficult of all?

saying the right thing at the right time development?

Do I have to buy ebooks for all that stuff, or if I just keep appraoching girls in clubs will this all magically come to me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Hence the phrase my drum teacher always used to say... "Practice makes PERMANENT"
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I've always liked that saying because no matter how much you practice, perfection is questionable; especially if you're practicing something that's not quite right.
 
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you have to be comfortable with yourself.. and when you are, if people aren't having fun being around you, fyck them, and find people who can relate.
 
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