"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Charisma Development??

escobar04

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hey fellas, havent been on in a long while

I was just wondering if there are ways to develop charisma thus being a more fun person to be around?

or is it just something you're born with? or does it have to do with just having a "I dont give a fcuk" attitude?

thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Interceptor

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Charisma is a combination of things.
Appearance, body language, and posture, tone of voice, facial expressions, interesting conversationalist, and being proper, poised, and saying the right thing at the right time.
 

BannedGod

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Interceptor said:
Charisma is a combination of things.
Appearance, body language, and posture, tone of voice, facial expressions, interesting conversationalist, and being proper, poised, and saying the right thing at the right time.
Said like this, it looks hard to be charismatic :D
 

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You're right. It means you have to have.....a Personality.


So much for that one, huh???
:)
Oh well, there's always more MM, and Deangelo..and money for everyone else.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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BannedGod said:
Said like this, it looks hard to be charismatic :D
How about this, being charismatic is like spinning plates, but it's in real time using all the people who are around you. :up:
 

Gangster Of Love

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jt the azn said:
Like anything else in life, practice makes perfect.
Actually, that's not an acurate statement. Perfect practice makes perfect. One can practice something the wrong way, and they'll learn how to do it perfectly wrong.
 

Gangster Of Love

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drummer said:
Hence the phrase my drum teacher always used to say... "Practice makes PERMANENT"
Wow, I like that one too. He's right.
 

Bonez

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Interceptor said:
Charisma is a combination of things.
Appearance, body language, and posture, tone of voice, facial expressions, interesting conversationalist, and being proper, poised, and saying the right thing at the right time.
So... appearance development? body language development? posture development? tone of voice development? "being proper" development?

and the most difficult of all?

saying the right thing at the right time development?

Do I have to buy ebooks for all that stuff, or if I just keep appraoching girls in clubs will this all magically come to me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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drummer said:
Hence the phrase my drum teacher always used to say... "Practice makes PERMANENT"
I've always liked that saying because no matter how much you practice, perfection is questionable; especially if you're practicing something that's not quite right.
 

blackbelt2k

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you have to be comfortable with yourself.. and when you are, if people aren't having fun being around you, fyck them, and find people who can relate.
 
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