“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Charisma Development??

escobar04

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hey fellas, havent been on in a long while

I was just wondering if there are ways to develop charisma thus being a more fun person to be around?

or is it just something you're born with? or does it have to do with just having a "I dont give a fcuk" attitude?

thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Charisma is a combination of things.
Appearance, body language, and posture, tone of voice, facial expressions, interesting conversationalist, and being proper, poised, and saying the right thing at the right time.
 

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Interceptor said:
Charisma is a combination of things.
Appearance, body language, and posture, tone of voice, facial expressions, interesting conversationalist, and being proper, poised, and saying the right thing at the right time.
Said like this, it looks hard to be charismatic :D
 

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You're right. It means you have to have.....a Personality.


So much for that one, huh???
:)
Oh well, there's always more MM, and Deangelo..and money for everyone else.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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BannedGod said:
Said like this, it looks hard to be charismatic :D
How about this, being charismatic is like spinning plates, but it's in real time using all the people who are around you. :up:
 

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jt the azn said:
Like anything else in life, practice makes perfect.
Actually, that's not an acurate statement. Perfect practice makes perfect. One can practice something the wrong way, and they'll learn how to do it perfectly wrong.
 

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drummer said:
Hence the phrase my drum teacher always used to say... "Practice makes PERMANENT"
Wow, I like that one too. He's right.
 

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Interceptor said:
Charisma is a combination of things.
Appearance, body language, and posture, tone of voice, facial expressions, interesting conversationalist, and being proper, poised, and saying the right thing at the right time.
So... appearance development? body language development? posture development? tone of voice development? "being proper" development?

and the most difficult of all?

saying the right thing at the right time development?

Do I have to buy ebooks for all that stuff, or if I just keep appraoching girls in clubs will this all magically come to me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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drummer said:
Hence the phrase my drum teacher always used to say... "Practice makes PERMANENT"
I've always liked that saying because no matter how much you practice, perfection is questionable; especially if you're practicing something that's not quite right.
 

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you have to be comfortable with yourself.. and when you are, if people aren't having fun being around you, fyck them, and find people who can relate.
 
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