"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Charisma Development??

escobar04

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hey fellas, havent been on in a long while

I was just wondering if there are ways to develop charisma thus being a more fun person to be around?

or is it just something you're born with? or does it have to do with just having a "I dont give a fcuk" attitude?

thanks!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Charisma is a combination of things.
Appearance, body language, and posture, tone of voice, facial expressions, interesting conversationalist, and being proper, poised, and saying the right thing at the right time.
 

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Interceptor said:
Charisma is a combination of things.
Appearance, body language, and posture, tone of voice, facial expressions, interesting conversationalist, and being proper, poised, and saying the right thing at the right time.
Said like this, it looks hard to be charismatic :D
 

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You're right. It means you have to have.....a Personality.


So much for that one, huh???
:)
Oh well, there's always more MM, and Deangelo..and money for everyone else.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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BannedGod said:
Said like this, it looks hard to be charismatic :D
How about this, being charismatic is like spinning plates, but it's in real time using all the people who are around you. :up:
 

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jt the azn said:
Like anything else in life, practice makes perfect.
Actually, that's not an acurate statement. Perfect practice makes perfect. One can practice something the wrong way, and they'll learn how to do it perfectly wrong.
 

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drummer said:
Hence the phrase my drum teacher always used to say... "Practice makes PERMANENT"
Wow, I like that one too. He's right.
 

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Interceptor said:
Charisma is a combination of things.
Appearance, body language, and posture, tone of voice, facial expressions, interesting conversationalist, and being proper, poised, and saying the right thing at the right time.
So... appearance development? body language development? posture development? tone of voice development? "being proper" development?

and the most difficult of all?

saying the right thing at the right time development?

Do I have to buy ebooks for all that stuff, or if I just keep appraoching girls in clubs will this all magically come to me?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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drummer said:
Hence the phrase my drum teacher always used to say... "Practice makes PERMANENT"
I've always liked that saying because no matter how much you practice, perfection is questionable; especially if you're practicing something that's not quite right.
 

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you have to be comfortable with yourself.. and when you are, if people aren't having fun being around you, fyck them, and find people who can relate.
 
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