"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Characteristics of the Modern Women

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zarky said:
I'm curious as to why manosphere types are always talking about "shaming." Do they feel shame all the time? Is that the problem here?

See for me... society, women, men, you, god, jesus, allah, the pope, my parents, my co-workers, random internet nutbags... have no ability to make me feel shame. None. So the concept of "shaming" others is entirely alien to my existence. Which is why I don't understand why manosphere types harp on it so much.

The only thing you should feel "shame" about is being irrational, IMHO. Especially after it's been pointed out to you that you have, indeed, been irrational and you continue to do it. And I wouldn't even say you should feel "shame," you should just figure out why you're being such a nut and fix that sh*t. I just point out irrationality and bullsh*t when I see it, and I see it a lot here.

When some dude writes up a list of attributes about an entire gender and all those attributes are negative, that's irrational. It's just silly and dumb and entirely divorced from reality. The reality is that there are good things and bad things about every person, every situation, and every social group ever.

So I say to those people: Either get away from women entirely, stop posting on internet boards about them, and live as a hermit.... or... get some professional psychological help.
I don't believe you're not shamed. You don't approach hot women irl because you're afraid of being shamed. You don't do a lot of things with the oposite sex because you are afraid of being shamed or worse.
 

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Has nothing to do with "shame," lots to do with my own insecurities about my abilities.

For example, I wouldn't play against Roger Federer in tennis not because I'm ashamed, but because I wouldn't want to be completely blown away. It's ego-related, not guilt-related.

I find the topic of guilt and shame interesting enough to do some research on it now... but no, guilt and shame are not big parts of my life. It's clear that they ARE big parts of the lives of "manosphereans" though, and that is interesting.

EDIT:

Guess we should define "shame" before arguing about it though LOL... it's not very well defined.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
Give it a rest you silly dyke cvnt. He said MODERN WOMEN . You know:

* You go gurrrlism
* Sex and the city lifestyle
* My "career"
* fagbook
* Appletini's
* I can't even cook toast
* Live love laugh teehee
* Foody
* Selfies
* C@ck carousel
* Ink, cause I'm unique
* Bathroom chock full of hair and used tampons
* Because empowerment and sh!t
* Abort, abort , abort
* Cat, dog sh!t/hair because she's my best friend

MODERN women. A big difference. "UNDERSTAND YOUR OWN PROBLEMS DERRRRRP :crazy: !!!" Nobody so far has said they can't phuck them in this thread you retard.
The fact that some men are willing to get into serious relationships and even marriages with these skanks makes me laugh uncontrollably.

Modern women (as described in your list) are nothing more than three holes for your pen!s. If you attempt to use them for anything more than sex.. expect to be disappointed. Any man who attempts to emotionally bond with such women might as well castrate himself and start talking with a lisp. :crackup:

Modern men pedestalize trash.. then cry when it stinks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PlayHer Man said:
The fact that some men are willing to get into serious relationships and even marriages with these skanks makes me laugh uncontrollably.

Modern women (as described in your list) are nothing more than three holes for your pen!s. If you attempt to use them for anything more than sex.. expect to be disappointed. Any man who attempts to emotionally bond with such women might as well castrate himself and start talking with a lisp. :crackup:

Modern men pedestalize trash.. then cry when it stinks.
Then what do you pedestalize? I am sure whatever you pedestalize, you will Be disappointed.
 

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The OP just helps us reinforce what we all know...this alternate universe which exists all around us, that WE as intelligent AWARE and WARY males don't want to partake in. We choose not to even give such women we pick up on who are like that, the time of day. When confronted with such women, we ignore THEM, we shun them, and we want no part of them, sure we'll TALK to them, but we keep our distance, because we know that there are STILL left SOME women out there who are Not like that, and those are the ones we let into our lives. Those are the ones we actually DO fvckin sh!t for. Don't waste your Time with this fvckin mixed up femicvnt b!tches that surround us day in and day out. Don't take Any of them seriously, patronize them, but never let them into your life, if but to fvck and chuck, cause that's what you do with these kind that are forever damaged and CANNOT be changed (because they have allowed the false Messages all their lives to Sink In, soak and marinate in their brains - they are forever corrupted), you USE them, else they use you. True women are Very few and far between these days, and ONly then can you be yourself and actually try to trust and to be trusted, not a "user" but a true friend and partner with a true feminine woman.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
The fact that some men are willing to get into serious relationships and even marriages with these skanks makes me laugh uncontrollably.

Modern women (as described in your list) are nothing more than three holes for your pen!s. If you attempt to use them for anything more than sex.. expect to be disappointed. Any man who attempts to emotionally bond with such women might as well castrate himself and start talking with a lisp. :crackup:

Modern men pedestalize trash.. then cry when it stinks.
^^^This! :up:
 

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( . )( . ) said:
Give it a rest you silly dyke cvnt. He said MODERN WOMEN . You know:

* You go gurrrlism
* Sex and the city lifestyle
* My "career"
* fagbook
* Appletini's
* I can't even cook toast
* Live love laugh teehee
* Foody
* Selfies
* C@ck carousel
* Ink, cause I'm unique
* Bathroom chock full of hair and used tampons
* Because empowerment and sh!t
* Abort, abort , abort
* Cat, dog sh!t/hair because she's my best friend

MODERN women. A big difference. "UNDERSTAND YOUR OWN PROBLEMS DERRRRRP :crazy: !!!" Nobody so far has said they can't phuck them in this thread you retard.
So sad. But SO true
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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