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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't believe you're not shamed. You don't approach hot women irl because you're afraid of being shamed. You don't do a lot of things with the oposite sex because you are afraid of being shamed or worse.Zarky said:I'm curious as to why manosphere types are always talking about "shaming." Do they feel shame all the time? Is that the problem here?
See for me... society, women, men, you, god, jesus, allah, the pope, my parents, my co-workers, random internet nutbags... have no ability to make me feel shame. None. So the concept of "shaming" others is entirely alien to my existence. Which is why I don't understand why manosphere types harp on it so much.
The only thing you should feel "shame" about is being irrational, IMHO. Especially after it's been pointed out to you that you have, indeed, been irrational and you continue to do it. And I wouldn't even say you should feel "shame," you should just figure out why you're being such a nut and fix that sh*t. I just point out irrationality and bullsh*t when I see it, and I see it a lot here.
When some dude writes up a list of attributes about an entire gender and all those attributes are negative, that's irrational. It's just silly and dumb and entirely divorced from reality. The reality is that there are good things and bad things about every person, every situation, and every social group ever.
So I say to those people: Either get away from women entirely, stop posting on internet boards about them, and live as a hermit.... or... get some professional psychological help.
Woah ! A subtle shame wrapped in a sentence about shame. She's getting creative. "Oh the SHAME "Zarky said:It's clear that they ARE big parts of the lives of "manosphereans" though, and that is interesting.
The fact that some men are willing to get into serious relationships and even marriages with these skanks makes me laugh uncontrollably.( . )( . ) said:Give it a rest you silly dyke cvnt. He said MODERN WOMEN . You know:
* You go gurrrlism
* Sex and the city lifestyle
* My "career"
* fagbook
* Appletini's
* I can't even cook toast
* Live love laugh teehee
* Foody
* Selfies
* C@ck carousel
* Ink, cause I'm unique
* Bathroom chock full of hair and used tampons
* Because empowerment and sh!t
* Abort, abort , abort
* Cat, dog sh!t/hair because she's my best friend
MODERN women. A big difference. "UNDERSTAND YOUR OWN PROBLEMS DERRRRRP :crazy: !!!" Nobody so far has said they can't phuck them in this thread you retard.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Then what do you pedestalize? I am sure whatever you pedestalize, you will Be disappointed.PlayHer Man said:The fact that some men are willing to get into serious relationships and even marriages with these skanks makes me laugh uncontrollably.
Modern women (as described in your list) are nothing more than three holes for your pen!s. If you attempt to use them for anything more than sex.. expect to be disappointed. Any man who attempts to emotionally bond with such women might as well castrate himself and start talking with a lisp. :crackup:
Modern men pedestalize trash.. then cry when it stinks.
^^^This!PlayHer Man said:The fact that some men are willing to get into serious relationships and even marriages with these skanks makes me laugh uncontrollably.
Modern women (as described in your list) are nothing more than three holes for your pen!s. If you attempt to use them for anything more than sex.. expect to be disappointed. Any man who attempts to emotionally bond with such women might as well castrate himself and start talking with a lisp. :crackup:
Modern men pedestalize trash.. then cry when it stinks.
So sad. But SO true( . )( . ) said:Give it a rest you silly dyke cvnt. He said MODERN WOMEN . You know:
* You go gurrrlism
* Sex and the city lifestyle
* My "career"
* fagbook
* Appletini's
* I can't even cook toast
* Live love laugh teehee
* Foody
* Selfies
* C@ck carousel
* Ink, cause I'm unique
* Bathroom chock full of hair and used tampons
* Because empowerment and sh!t
* Abort, abort , abort
* Cat, dog sh!t/hair because she's my best friend
MODERN women. A big difference. "UNDERSTAND YOUR OWN PROBLEMS DERRRRRP :crazy: !!!" Nobody so far has said they can't phuck them in this thread you retard.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I don't date 'em. I phuck 'em and leave 'em!LiveFreeX said:OP, don't date western women.
Problem solved.