"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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over the holidays i was working alot of confidence and approaching and now that im back at tech im quite abit more confident etccc (not hard out pua kinda ****) and i seem to have this weird feeling in my stomach over the last few days for the start of uni i think because in these group activities everyone is putting me as leader and stuff like that and it feels like im not myself anymore and my stomach feels kinda weird its fuct up :/
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Being made "group leader" at a technical college doesn't make you "alpha". As for the weird feeling in your stomach, go to a doctor. :)
 

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I have a few q for you
1. Can you approach anyone?
2. Can you approach any girl?
3. Whats your body language and posture like? Describe it..
 

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Originally posted by diablo
Being made "group leader" at a technical college doesn't make you "alpha". As for the weird feeling in your stomach, go to a doctor. :)
that was just an example, and its not a title there is no actual leader its just that everyone is trying to report to me and trying to get my approval. Im at university, not technical college
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
I have a few q for you
1. Can you approach anyone?
2. Can you approach any girl?
3. Whats your body language and posture like? Describe it..
yeh i can approach anyone except i struggle cold approaching real hott girls in akward enviroments.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ya im currently doin a bootcamp and i find it harder to say hi to hot girls, so what im trying to do is think of them as just average girls and then give myself a punishment eg. no food for 12 hours IF i dont greet the hot girls.
You should try it, I got other wayz of approaching hot girls... if you want to know just ask.
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
ya im currently doin a bootcamp and i find it harder to say hi to hot girls, so what im trying to do is think of them as just average girls and then give myself a punishment eg. no food for 12 hours IF i dont greet the hot girls.
You should try it, I got other wayz of approaching hot girls... if you want to know just ask.
i try to eat every 3 hours cause im bulking, but can you tell me these other techniques? pm them if you want?
 

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You bulking and you expecting hot girls to notice you?
Lol. Wrong way to go about it, ya it will help but it wont make you "hotter." You either have the looks or you dont.

ERm, Ill PM you tommorw, im kinda busy now.
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
You bulking and you expecting hot girls to notice you?
Lol. Wrong way to go about it, ya it will help but it wont make you "hotter." You either have the looks or you dont.

ERm, Ill PM you tommorw, im kinda busy now.
im not doing it for looks, im bulking cause i want to get stronger for football, wide receiver on scholarship :D, im not worried about my looks they are great.
 

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Bulking up definatly will help if he's skinny. Girls go nuts over a good body.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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