over the holidays i was working alot of confidence and approaching and now that im back at tech im quite abit more confident etccc (not hard out pua kinda ****) and i seem to have this weird feeling in my stomach over the last few days for the start of uni i think because in these group activities everyone is putting me as leader and stuff like that and it feels like im not myself anymore and my stomach feels kinda weird its fuct up :/
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
changing from AFC to alpha/leader.
- Thread starter Agressor
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Being made "group leader" at a technical college doesn't make you "alpha". As for the weird feeling in your stomach, go to a doctor. 
that was just an example, and its not a title there is no actual leader its just that everyone is trying to report to me and trying to get my approval. Im at university, not technical collegeOriginally posted by diablo
Being made "group leader" at a technical college doesn't make you "alpha". As for the weird feeling in your stomach, go to a doctor.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
ya im currently doin a bootcamp and i find it harder to say hi to hot girls, so what im trying to do is think of them as just average girls and then give myself a punishment eg. no food for 12 hours IF i dont greet the hot girls.
You should try it, I got other wayz of approaching hot girls... if you want to know just ask.
You should try it, I got other wayz of approaching hot girls... if you want to know just ask.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
You bulking and you expecting hot girls to notice you?
Lol. Wrong way to go about it, ya it will help but it wont make you "hotter." You either have the looks or you dont.
ERm, Ill PM you tommorw, im kinda busy now.
Lol. Wrong way to go about it, ya it will help but it wont make you "hotter." You either have the looks or you dont.
ERm, Ill PM you tommorw, im kinda busy now.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.