"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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changing from AFC to alpha/leader.

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over the holidays i was working alot of confidence and approaching and now that im back at tech im quite abit more confident etccc (not hard out pua kinda ****) and i seem to have this weird feeling in my stomach over the last few days for the start of uni i think because in these group activities everyone is putting me as leader and stuff like that and it feels like im not myself anymore and my stomach feels kinda weird its fuct up :/
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Being made "group leader" at a technical college doesn't make you "alpha". As for the weird feeling in your stomach, go to a doctor. :)
 

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I have a few q for you
1. Can you approach anyone?
2. Can you approach any girl?
3. Whats your body language and posture like? Describe it..
 

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Originally posted by diablo
Being made "group leader" at a technical college doesn't make you "alpha". As for the weird feeling in your stomach, go to a doctor. :)
that was just an example, and its not a title there is no actual leader its just that everyone is trying to report to me and trying to get my approval. Im at university, not technical college
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
I have a few q for you
1. Can you approach anyone?
2. Can you approach any girl?
3. Whats your body language and posture like? Describe it..
yeh i can approach anyone except i struggle cold approaching real hott girls in akward enviroments.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ya im currently doin a bootcamp and i find it harder to say hi to hot girls, so what im trying to do is think of them as just average girls and then give myself a punishment eg. no food for 12 hours IF i dont greet the hot girls.
You should try it, I got other wayz of approaching hot girls... if you want to know just ask.
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
ya im currently doin a bootcamp and i find it harder to say hi to hot girls, so what im trying to do is think of them as just average girls and then give myself a punishment eg. no food for 12 hours IF i dont greet the hot girls.
You should try it, I got other wayz of approaching hot girls... if you want to know just ask.
i try to eat every 3 hours cause im bulking, but can you tell me these other techniques? pm them if you want?
 

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You bulking and you expecting hot girls to notice you?
Lol. Wrong way to go about it, ya it will help but it wont make you "hotter." You either have the looks or you dont.

ERm, Ill PM you tommorw, im kinda busy now.
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe
You bulking and you expecting hot girls to notice you?
Lol. Wrong way to go about it, ya it will help but it wont make you "hotter." You either have the looks or you dont.

ERm, Ill PM you tommorw, im kinda busy now.
im not doing it for looks, im bulking cause i want to get stronger for football, wide receiver on scholarship :D, im not worried about my looks they are great.
 

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Bulking up definatly will help if he's skinny. Girls go nuts over a good body.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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