"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Change of plans

HeyPachuco!

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Got this date scheduled for next week, but I kinda told her that we would ''go out and do something'', Also I'm not driving at the moment, but she is. I dont really want to be riding shotgun with her in the passenger seat so I thought I should change things around abit.

After reading Gunwitch Method, I want to change it to a ''Quiet movie at my place'', then going in for the kill that way, because undoubtedly she is the type of girl to put me in the ''make him wait'', dating boyfriend material-type category if I go that route of taking her on a date.

Intentions: Are for getting layed. BUT will possibly date her aswell if it leans towards my favour.

Routes to go?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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trent81

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Gonna give you one rule so you can memorize it;

This is for those who look to just getting laid;

ALCOHOL EQUALS SEX, FOOD EQUALS SLEEP.

If you want sex, no dinner, just drinks. If you want a girlfriend, dinner w/drinks. I don't care about the location. DRINKS EQUALS SEX. She will be more comfortable and will want to make out. If she eats, she will yawn and say "I'm sooooo tired".
 

HeyPachuco!

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Ha Ha,

I get what you mean Trent, but to escalate with a drunkard or semi-drunk chick wouldn't go down to well. I'm not really amped up to get the ''I dont know you too well'' or ''Why are you giving me this (alcohol)". I don't want her speculating in her mind I'm TRYING to get her panties off because I offered her alcohol?. When it does get to escalate with kino, and she shuts me down with that ''Dont know you to well'' line, I will still persist (not with force), but in order to do that she needs to be alert and her ''Sexual state'' readily SOBER. A few drinks wouldn't hurt I guess.
 

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UPDATE: Date was meant to be sometime this week, however there was some confusion into a specific day.

Haven't spoke to her since last week (except for the txts), all abit hectic, with other stuff. Been alot of me calling her, she hasnt picked up, then she rings me back and I don't pick up (busy), then she txt's me saying she was sleeping, just going round-in-circles. So theres abit of confusion and delay with communication.

So I called her yesterday, she didnt pick up. Then she txt me saying she was sleeping again, its strange because its asif she's flaking, BUT she returns my calls. Anyway, I just dropped ''Hey we need to hangout, what you doing Friday?'' She replied with ''I'm working and got uni aswell! ..what you doing anyway :p'', so I just replied with , ''Really? well I'll see you around some other time when were both not busy, I've been around ***** with my company, don't really do the whole bed-txting thing lol night =] ''. She says ''Lol Hahaha funny, K night =P''

SO! ..She was interested to go on the date with me quite enthusiatic about it aswell when I asked her last week, I just didnt continue into ''WHEN'', How should I ask her when shes available without seeming desperate? Technically she should reshedule since shes the one saying she has bla bla bla, but I will give her a strike 1 on this case since she has been busy working & uni c/w.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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