"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Change of plans

HeyPachuco!

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Got this date scheduled for next week, but I kinda told her that we would ''go out and do something'', Also I'm not driving at the moment, but she is. I dont really want to be riding shotgun with her in the passenger seat so I thought I should change things around abit.

After reading Gunwitch Method, I want to change it to a ''Quiet movie at my place'', then going in for the kill that way, because undoubtedly she is the type of girl to put me in the ''make him wait'', dating boyfriend material-type category if I go that route of taking her on a date.

Intentions: Are for getting layed. BUT will possibly date her aswell if it leans towards my favour.

Routes to go?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gonna give you one rule so you can memorize it;

This is for those who look to just getting laid;

ALCOHOL EQUALS SEX, FOOD EQUALS SLEEP.

If you want sex, no dinner, just drinks. If you want a girlfriend, dinner w/drinks. I don't care about the location. DRINKS EQUALS SEX. She will be more comfortable and will want to make out. If she eats, she will yawn and say "I'm sooooo tired".
 

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Ha Ha,

I get what you mean Trent, but to escalate with a drunkard or semi-drunk chick wouldn't go down to well. I'm not really amped up to get the ''I dont know you too well'' or ''Why are you giving me this (alcohol)". I don't want her speculating in her mind I'm TRYING to get her panties off because I offered her alcohol?. When it does get to escalate with kino, and she shuts me down with that ''Dont know you to well'' line, I will still persist (not with force), but in order to do that she needs to be alert and her ''Sexual state'' readily SOBER. A few drinks wouldn't hurt I guess.
 

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UPDATE: Date was meant to be sometime this week, however there was some confusion into a specific day.

Haven't spoke to her since last week (except for the txts), all abit hectic, with other stuff. Been alot of me calling her, she hasnt picked up, then she rings me back and I don't pick up (busy), then she txt's me saying she was sleeping, just going round-in-circles. So theres abit of confusion and delay with communication.

So I called her yesterday, she didnt pick up. Then she txt me saying she was sleeping again, its strange because its asif she's flaking, BUT she returns my calls. Anyway, I just dropped ''Hey we need to hangout, what you doing Friday?'' She replied with ''I'm working and got uni aswell! ..what you doing anyway :p'', so I just replied with , ''Really? well I'll see you around some other time when were both not busy, I've been around ***** with my company, don't really do the whole bed-txting thing lol night =] ''. She says ''Lol Hahaha funny, K night =P''

SO! ..She was interested to go on the date with me quite enthusiatic about it aswell when I asked her last week, I just didnt continue into ''WHEN'', How should I ask her when shes available without seeming desperate? Technically she should reshedule since shes the one saying she has bla bla bla, but I will give her a strike 1 on this case since she has been busy working & uni c/w.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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