"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Change of plans

HeyPachuco!

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Got this date scheduled for next week, but I kinda told her that we would ''go out and do something'', Also I'm not driving at the moment, but she is. I dont really want to be riding shotgun with her in the passenger seat so I thought I should change things around abit.

After reading Gunwitch Method, I want to change it to a ''Quiet movie at my place'', then going in for the kill that way, because undoubtedly she is the type of girl to put me in the ''make him wait'', dating boyfriend material-type category if I go that route of taking her on a date.

Intentions: Are for getting layed. BUT will possibly date her aswell if it leans towards my favour.

Routes to go?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gonna give you one rule so you can memorize it;

This is for those who look to just getting laid;

ALCOHOL EQUALS SEX, FOOD EQUALS SLEEP.

If you want sex, no dinner, just drinks. If you want a girlfriend, dinner w/drinks. I don't care about the location. DRINKS EQUALS SEX. She will be more comfortable and will want to make out. If she eats, she will yawn and say "I'm sooooo tired".
 

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Ha Ha,

I get what you mean Trent, but to escalate with a drunkard or semi-drunk chick wouldn't go down to well. I'm not really amped up to get the ''I dont know you too well'' or ''Why are you giving me this (alcohol)". I don't want her speculating in her mind I'm TRYING to get her panties off because I offered her alcohol?. When it does get to escalate with kino, and she shuts me down with that ''Dont know you to well'' line, I will still persist (not with force), but in order to do that she needs to be alert and her ''Sexual state'' readily SOBER. A few drinks wouldn't hurt I guess.
 

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UPDATE: Date was meant to be sometime this week, however there was some confusion into a specific day.

Haven't spoke to her since last week (except for the txts), all abit hectic, with other stuff. Been alot of me calling her, she hasnt picked up, then she rings me back and I don't pick up (busy), then she txt's me saying she was sleeping, just going round-in-circles. So theres abit of confusion and delay with communication.

So I called her yesterday, she didnt pick up. Then she txt me saying she was sleeping again, its strange because its asif she's flaking, BUT she returns my calls. Anyway, I just dropped ''Hey we need to hangout, what you doing Friday?'' She replied with ''I'm working and got uni aswell! ..what you doing anyway :p'', so I just replied with , ''Really? well I'll see you around some other time when were both not busy, I've been around ***** with my company, don't really do the whole bed-txting thing lol night =] ''. She says ''Lol Hahaha funny, K night =P''

SO! ..She was interested to go on the date with me quite enthusiatic about it aswell when I asked her last week, I just didnt continue into ''WHEN'', How should I ask her when shes available without seeming desperate? Technically she should reshedule since shes the one saying she has bla bla bla, but I will give her a strike 1 on this case since she has been busy working & uni c/w.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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