"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Change of plans

HeyPachuco!

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Got this date scheduled for next week, but I kinda told her that we would ''go out and do something'', Also I'm not driving at the moment, but she is. I dont really want to be riding shotgun with her in the passenger seat so I thought I should change things around abit.

After reading Gunwitch Method, I want to change it to a ''Quiet movie at my place'', then going in for the kill that way, because undoubtedly she is the type of girl to put me in the ''make him wait'', dating boyfriend material-type category if I go that route of taking her on a date.

Intentions: Are for getting layed. BUT will possibly date her aswell if it leans towards my favour.

Routes to go?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gonna give you one rule so you can memorize it;

This is for those who look to just getting laid;

ALCOHOL EQUALS SEX, FOOD EQUALS SLEEP.

If you want sex, no dinner, just drinks. If you want a girlfriend, dinner w/drinks. I don't care about the location. DRINKS EQUALS SEX. She will be more comfortable and will want to make out. If she eats, she will yawn and say "I'm sooooo tired".
 

HeyPachuco!

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Ha Ha,

I get what you mean Trent, but to escalate with a drunkard or semi-drunk chick wouldn't go down to well. I'm not really amped up to get the ''I dont know you too well'' or ''Why are you giving me this (alcohol)". I don't want her speculating in her mind I'm TRYING to get her panties off because I offered her alcohol?. When it does get to escalate with kino, and she shuts me down with that ''Dont know you to well'' line, I will still persist (not with force), but in order to do that she needs to be alert and her ''Sexual state'' readily SOBER. A few drinks wouldn't hurt I guess.
 

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UPDATE: Date was meant to be sometime this week, however there was some confusion into a specific day.

Haven't spoke to her since last week (except for the txts), all abit hectic, with other stuff. Been alot of me calling her, she hasnt picked up, then she rings me back and I don't pick up (busy), then she txt's me saying she was sleeping, just going round-in-circles. So theres abit of confusion and delay with communication.

So I called her yesterday, she didnt pick up. Then she txt me saying she was sleeping again, its strange because its asif she's flaking, BUT she returns my calls. Anyway, I just dropped ''Hey we need to hangout, what you doing Friday?'' She replied with ''I'm working and got uni aswell! ..what you doing anyway :p'', so I just replied with , ''Really? well I'll see you around some other time when were both not busy, I've been around ***** with my company, don't really do the whole bed-txting thing lol night =] ''. She says ''Lol Hahaha funny, K night =P''

SO! ..She was interested to go on the date with me quite enthusiatic about it aswell when I asked her last week, I just didnt continue into ''WHEN'', How should I ask her when shes available without seeming desperate? Technically she should reshedule since shes the one saying she has bla bla bla, but I will give her a strike 1 on this case since she has been busy working & uni c/w.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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