The Next Big Thing
Don Juan
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AHAHAHHAHAHAHHHAH this made me laugh so muchYou'd have better chances at finding a polar bear toasting pop tarts, at the north pole.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
AHAHAHHAHAHAHHHAH this made me laugh so muchYou'd have better chances at finding a polar bear toasting pop tarts, at the north pole.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What is OLD?A cold angry woman is also likely to be a propagandized, resentful feminist with no sense of humor. They might be getting sex to feel better about themselves in the moment, and they might even have sex with you, but there is no joy in their life. Do not get involved with a cold angry woman, she will make your life hell.
You want to look for women who have not been broken by life, the ones that can still laugh and have a warm smile. These are the kind of women who are less likely to have frivolous sex.
Stay off OLD and social media, you're more likely to meet women who aren't on the c0ck carousel that way.
Don't entertain her asking about your love life and don't ask her, you maintain the boundary, leave it unsaid, who cares what she's doingwhat do you mean by the limits and boundaries? could you give some examples?
OLD= On Line DatingWhat is OLD?
Not since before MySpace and aol messenger. Today its not possible. At the least, she's got a dude who won't commit or a ex. Take your shot. I do that. Strike out king but so was Babe Ruth.What are the chances of a good looking single young girl not seeing anyone? What is the longest (you know of) that a good looking single girl has gone without sex.
Are there some signs that you could read off a girl that tell you that she is sleeping with someone/has FWB or if she is going through drought currently?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Not quite. They can still be single. Their prospects may or may not matter.An attractive woman is never truly single. It would sort of short circuit her brain if she had no male prospects in the pipeline. They always keep a few orbiters around to feed their ego if things didn't work out with the candidate at the top of her list.
I fixed it for you. I've known quite a few beautiful woman that chooses to be by themselves. Maybe not for a really long time but they do for various reasons(some stated in this thread). Then you have the weird ones that are just weird and looking to be by themselves.I wholeheartedly agree. An emotionally stable beautiful woman is NEVER alone.
Yes, there is, but it's a pretty advanced strategy.Are there some signs that you could read off a girl that tell you that she is sleeping with someone/has FWB or if she is going through drought currently?
I find that to be true.In my opinion the only way to avoid STD is to abstain.
While that's ridiculous based on my experience.In my mind ALL women lie about the # of men they slept with. Whatever # of men they claim multiply it by 7.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yes, definitely orbiters. All of them have at least some orbiters that feed their ego , most have many many orbiters.An attractive woman is never truly single. It would sort of short circuit her brain if she had no male prospects in the pipeline. They always keep a few orbiters around to feed their ego if things didn't work out with the candidate at the top of her list.
What kind of answers would you pay attention to?Yes, there is, but it's a pretty advanced strategy.
It involves things like talking to her, paying attention to her answers, things like that.
Anything she says think the total oppositeWhat kind of answers would you pay attention to?
Jeez dude I was being sarcasticWhat kind of answers would you pay attention to?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.