"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chances of hot single girl not seeing anyone

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A cold angry woman is also likely to be a propagandized, resentful feminist with no sense of humor. They might be getting sex to feel better about themselves in the moment, and they might even have sex with you, but there is no joy in their life. Do not get involved with a cold angry woman, she will make your life hell.

You want to look for women who have not been broken by life, the ones that can still laugh and have a warm smile. These are the kind of women who are less likely to have frivolous sex.

Stay off OLD and social media, you're more likely to meet women who aren't on the c0ck carousel that way.
What is OLD?
 

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What are the chances of a good looking single young girl not seeing anyone? What is the longest (you know of) that a good looking single girl has gone without sex.
Are there some signs that you could read off a girl that tell you that she is sleeping with someone/has FWB or if she is going through drought currently?
Not since before MySpace and aol messenger. Today its not possible. At the least, she's got a dude who won't commit or a ex. Take your shot. I do that. Strike out king but so was Babe Ruth.

Brb guys, stealing 2nd after 2nd just cause I know I can.

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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An attractive woman is never truly single. It would sort of short circuit her brain if she had no male prospects in the pipeline. They always keep a few orbiters around to feed their ego if things didn't work out with the candidate at the top of her list.
Not quite. They can still be single. Their prospects may or may not matter.
 

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I wholeheartedly agree. An emotionally stable beautiful woman is NEVER alone.
I fixed it for you. I've known quite a few beautiful woman that chooses to be by themselves. Maybe not for a really long time but they do for various reasons(some stated in this thread). Then you have the weird ones that are just weird and looking to be by themselves.
 

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Are there some signs that you could read off a girl that tell you that she is sleeping with someone/has FWB or if she is going through drought currently?
Yes, there is, but it's a pretty advanced strategy.

It involves things like talking to her, paying attention to her answers, things like that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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An attractive woman is never truly single. It would sort of short circuit her brain if she had no male prospects in the pipeline. They always keep a few orbiters around to feed their ego if things didn't work out with the candidate at the top of her list.
Yes, definitely orbiters. All of them have at least some orbiters that feed their ego , most have many many orbiters.
BUT my question is if they actually act on it?
I mean that these single good looking girls have couple of these orbiters they keep leading on because it makes them feel good that somebody is chasing them...but are they actually sleeping with any of them? My opinion is that those orbiters must have something that she likes (e.g. decent looks, or something else) which makes her feel validated that a man like that wants her ... but at the same time they dont have something else/enough for her to give them a chance ... so she leaves them as orbiters forever. Or what do you think?
 

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What kind of answers would you pay attention to?
Jeez dude I was being sarcastic

That kind of thing is self evident.

If she goes for a few minutes without mentioning a boyfriend, and seems interested in the conversation, that's good.

If she says, "I have a boyfriend" before you open your mouth, that's bad.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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