so a little less then a month ago me and my gf were making love and we were both very drunk. I ended up having an orgasm and i was wearing a condom but the way we were positioned i wasnt able to pull out right away. I was inside her for maybe 5 seconds after I ejaculated. She has been on the pill and im pretty sure she was on it. The condom i wore was spermicidal and we had sex just a day or so after her period. For some reason i am really stressing this because just a couple days ago we broke up and if she is pregnant i dunno what she will do. Am i paranoid for nothing? any advice would be great. Thanks
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silverwolfalpha
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u r paranoid. Spermicidal kills your beans with in secs.
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you are 100% fine, shes not pregnant
silverwolfalpha said:
Spermicidal lube doesnt do much really, its effectiveness is at best questionable. But you dont have anything to worry about either way. Condom+pill+pulling out is about as safe as dry humping in terms of pregnancy.
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Oh boy spermicidal lube reminds me of Superbad.
Anyways did your rubber break?
Anyways did your rubber break?
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Bible_Belt
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I agree the OP is safe due to the condom.
but fwiw, a female friend used to use spermicide. Her kid is now 2.
but fwiw, a female friend used to use spermicide. Her kid is now 2.
frivolousz21
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you are one of the few guys here to ever say making love
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