so a little less then a month ago me and my gf were making love and we were both very drunk. I ended up having an orgasm and i was wearing a condom but the way we were positioned i wasnt able to pull out right away. I was inside her for maybe 5 seconds after I ejaculated. She has been on the pill and im pretty sure she was on it. The condom i wore was spermicidal and we had sex just a day or so after her period. For some reason i am really stressing this because just a couple days ago we broke up and if she is pregnant i dunno what she will do. Am i paranoid for nothing? any advice would be great. Thanks
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
chance of her being pregant
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
silverwolfalpha
Don Juan
u r paranoid. Spermicidal kills your beans with in secs.
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you are 100% fine, shes not pregnant
silverwolfalpha said:
Spermicidal lube doesnt do much really, its effectiveness is at best questionable. But you dont have anything to worry about either way. Condom+pill+pulling out is about as safe as dry humping in terms of pregnancy.
LostAndConfused
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Oh boy spermicidal lube reminds me of Superbad.
Anyways did your rubber break?
Anyways did your rubber break?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bible_Belt
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I agree the OP is safe due to the condom.
but fwiw, a female friend used to use spermicide. Her kid is now 2.
but fwiw, a female friend used to use spermicide. Her kid is now 2.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
you are one of the few guys here to ever say making love
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.