so a little less then a month ago me and my gf were making love and we were both very drunk. I ended up having an orgasm and i was wearing a condom but the way we were positioned i wasnt able to pull out right away. I was inside her for maybe 5 seconds after I ejaculated. She has been on the pill and im pretty sure she was on it. The condom i wore was spermicidal and we had sex just a day or so after her period. For some reason i am really stressing this because just a couple days ago we broke up and if she is pregnant i dunno what she will do. Am i paranoid for nothing? any advice would be great. Thanks
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
chance of her being pregant
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
silverwolfalpha
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u r paranoid. Spermicidal kills your beans with in secs.
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you are 100% fine, shes not pregnant
silverwolfalpha said:
Spermicidal lube doesnt do much really, its effectiveness is at best questionable. But you dont have anything to worry about either way. Condom+pill+pulling out is about as safe as dry humping in terms of pregnancy.
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Oh boy spermicidal lube reminds me of Superbad.
Anyways did your rubber break?
Anyways did your rubber break?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bible_Belt
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I agree the OP is safe due to the condom.
but fwiw, a female friend used to use spermicide. Her kid is now 2.
but fwiw, a female friend used to use spermicide. Her kid is now 2.
frivolousz21
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you are one of the few guys here to ever say making love
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.