so a little less then a month ago me and my gf were making love and we were both very drunk. I ended up having an orgasm and i was wearing a condom but the way we were positioned i wasnt able to pull out right away. I was inside her for maybe 5 seconds after I ejaculated. She has been on the pill and im pretty sure she was on it. The condom i wore was spermicidal and we had sex just a day or so after her period. For some reason i am really stressing this because just a couple days ago we broke up and if she is pregnant i dunno what she will do. Am i paranoid for nothing? any advice would be great. Thanks
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
chance of her being pregant
- Thread starter theNEWDJ
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
silverwolfalpha
Don Juan
u r paranoid. Spermicidal kills your beans with in secs.
AFC Savior
Banned
- Joined
- Nov 20, 2007
- Messages
- 354
- Reaction score
- 3
you are 100% fine, shes not pregnant
silverwolfalpha said:
Spermicidal lube doesnt do much really, its effectiveness is at best questionable. But you dont have anything to worry about either way. Condom+pill+pulling out is about as safe as dry humping in terms of pregnancy.
LostAndConfused
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 22, 2007
- Messages
- 1,137
- Reaction score
- 11
Oh boy spermicidal lube reminds me of Superbad.
Anyways did your rubber break?
Anyways did your rubber break?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I agree the OP is safe due to the condom.
but fwiw, a female friend used to use spermicide. Her kid is now 2.
but fwiw, a female friend used to use spermicide. Her kid is now 2.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
you are one of the few guys here to ever say making love
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.