"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Challenge#1: Create A Neg 2005

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dirtyvibe

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You: Hey, you're pretty.
You: Pretty ugly!
You: Laugh in her face.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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S-lemond

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hahahah i always use others (with my own lil twist of course) but HEY, sharing is caring (it can be fun) hahahahaha
 
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Apologies if these have already been said, I don't have the time to wade through 3 pages of negs ;)

These were field tested yesterday.

Me: I like your hair today, especially the bits sticking out at odd angles.

Her reaction: SHUTTUP, THE RAIN MAKES MY HAIR GO WEIRD. You're mean ;).

Me: You shouldn't blame your hair.

Her: ... =O (tickles me)

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Her: I got 70 for my aviation exam!

Me: 70? Hey, thats not *too* bad at all. Well done.

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Me: Not ANOTHER clothing shop?! I mean, you have great taste in clothes, but your obsession is just a *little* creepy ;)

Her: (playpunches me in the ribs) :)

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I'm sure I'll remember some more later, but those were the best ones. I basically negged her, kino'd her, and C&F'd her ALL day. We went to the city for lunch, and we both had to get new shoes (never, ever, go shopping with a girl. Not a dating mistake, but 3 hours later....ugh :) Still, I did go back to her house afterwards...)
 
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"Nice skirt, you actually look presentable today."

You can substitute anything for skirt.
 
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The Nice Guy is Gone

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I'll give this a shot

This I got from that hearing their steps post, and something I heard tonight. BTW, I didn't approach anyone tonight because I was watching the game, was tire, and was not in the mood.

Anyways: You hear this hb walking b/c her shoes are loud;

me: Those are nice shoes, if you want me to hear you coming from a mile away.

What do you think?

That may just be mean--but I don't know; I'll have to try it out sometime
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Swoop

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Some of the ones you guys come up are pure insults not negs imo. But quite funny though haha
 
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Originally posted by dirtyvibe
You: Hey, you're pretty.
You: Pretty ugly!
You: Laugh in her face.
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That'll get you slapped. Or she'll just cry.

I agree with Swoop (partially). The point of a neg hit is to both compliment her and insult her, all in the same phrase, so it confuses the hell out of her, and all the other things it does (read: bible).

I'll try some more out today on some of my girl friends, see how they respond. Knowing one in particular, i'ma have sore ribs when I get back.

Syn.
 
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qweretyuiopas

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Originally posted by dirtyvibe
You: Hey, you're pretty.
You: Pretty ugly!
You: Laugh in her face.
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Originally posted by SynapsyS
That'll get you slapped. Or she'll just cry.
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I think that comment from dirtyvibe was a joke I think he purposely said an insult because so many of you were sayin those were insults so he just threw out a obvious insult that was quite funny I might add, if im wrong dirtyvibe tell me.
 
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Originally posted by almost perfect
:confused: don't get it but maybe because i'm american.here are a few off the top of my head:
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snakebite=beer+cider+red cordial

turns tongue red
turns stomach inside out
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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although i know shezz had the best intentions in making this thread, i think he made many of the newer DJ's think that neg hits should be used on a regular basis. when i learned about them i was constantly warned only to use them with super super hot girls, and even then only use them on those super hot girls if they placed themselves on a pedestal above me. so far i've never found myself in a situation where i needed a neg hit.

unfortunately because of this thread there may be quite a few more girls out there getting insulted under the guise of a neg hit.
 
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Originally posted by almost perfect
although i know shezz had the best intentions in making this thread, i think he made many of the newer DJ's think that neg hits should be used on a regular basis. when i learned about them i was constantly warned only to use them with super super hot girls, and even then only use them on those super hot girls if they placed themselves on a pedestal above me. so far i've never found myself in a situation where i needed a neg hit.

unfortunately because of this thread there may be quite a few more girls out there getting insulted under the guise of a neg hit.
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