"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Day 3

weighed in at 163, probably going to up the cals

Meal 1...2 scoops pro, 12 almonds

work out

antag training

6x6 back and chest

50 dumbel press

110 lat pull down


Post workout- 1 scoop oats, 2 scoops protein


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Day 4

Meal 1-18 almonds, one half cup of oats, 1/4 cup of blueberries, 2 scoops protien, 1 greens multi vitamin


Cardio and abs, basketball and 2 sets of 25
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Day 5


1. 1 cup oats, 1/4 cup blueberries, 2 scoops pro. 18 almonds

2. pwo 1 cup oats, 2 scoops pro

3. 6oz chick, 1 cup broc

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5. chick + broc+ 500 mg vitamin c

6. 8 oz hamburger, broc, 1 cup mushrooms, red wine vinegar,


Probably take it up to 1800 plus 150 carbs on Monday. total about 2400 kcals, lost alot of water weight

plus sunday a free refeed

todays workout

squats 6x6, calves, 2 sets of crunches, three sets of biceps for hypertrophy work.
 
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Day 6


meal 1 oats, blueberries, almonds

meal 2. 12 eggs, 2 whole, fried in coconut oil, multi
 
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Day 7

Weighed in at 160, surely lost alot of water of the past 7 days.

Going to bump up kcals to around 1800 cha, and carbs 1 cup oats, a potatoe pwo, and 1/4 cup blueberries, 1 apple, plus random broc

totals to be around 26-2800 kcals in addtion to weakly cheat meal on Sundays.


eating more read meat and noticed test increase
 
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8

1. piece of ezekial, 1 scoop pro

2. 10 eggs, three whole

3. diet coke, a piece ezekial, 6 oz chicken, 1 tbles pbutter

1 gallon of water, ginger root, fish cap

back day
 
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9

Eating five meals....three fish caps at 1, 3, 5

1. ezekial, 1 scoop whey

2. 1 scoop of when, oats, blueberries(1 cup)

NO STIMS Today or WED.

3. 1 dozen eggs 3 whole


4. 8 oz beef


5. 8 oz chicken, veggies, 18 almonds 1 fish cap, 1 vit c, magnesium for sleep

cardio and two sets of abs today

Will be tightening up diet next week and workout for phase 2 of training protocol. Won't be able to post diet(only macros)


5.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Espi said:
Add carbs to each of your meals: brown rice, sweet potatoes, fruits, oatmeal.

You keep eating like you did at meal 9 and adding more carbs consistently, you're gonna gain weight.
He's following the cha diet (Carb Haters Anonymous)

This diet doesn't use many carbs
 
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Phase 2 Upping kcals to 3-3500kcals with 150 netcarbs from veggies and pre/pwo starch

Meal 1-12 eggs, 3 whole, `1 cup broc green multi, fish cap. 16 oz water

Three week cycle of power/hypertrophy workout
 
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