Hello, I have just finished reading The Rational Male after a content creator in the manosphere I know well mentioned Rollo of the cusp, and I decided to take a look at complete random, as I have been far more in the political sphere of the TRP than in this end. I've learnt a lot but I have a big question.
I am a Roman Catholic, and when I believe things I follow them through to their logical conclusion. In this case, it's remaining celibate until marriage. However, I have read in the book that this cedes ground to the Woman's frame, and I have seen this happen IRL.
For example, I was out the other day. I am usually one of the more energetic and confident guys in a group by nature, particularly when negging. However, my faith came up and I explained I didn't use contraception. The woman drew the conclusion initially I only did bareback. Then, later on, another guy who I later found out was really jealous of me having her attention asked me If I was a virgin. I, naturally, shut him down by asking him the same question. However, then she asked, so I just outright told her and that I was waiting for marriage. And, while she did talk to me for a little longer, and chatting about how celibacy can often draw women in, it petered out.
My question is, how should I make it clear I am like this and not use frame?
If this has already been answered, feel free to delete this and send me a link to where it has been answered.
Thanks
I am a Roman Catholic, and when I believe things I follow them through to their logical conclusion. In this case, it's remaining celibate until marriage. However, I have read in the book that this cedes ground to the Woman's frame, and I have seen this happen IRL.
For example, I was out the other day. I am usually one of the more energetic and confident guys in a group by nature, particularly when negging. However, my faith came up and I explained I didn't use contraception. The woman drew the conclusion initially I only did bareback. Then, later on, another guy who I later found out was really jealous of me having her attention asked me If I was a virgin. I, naturally, shut him down by asking him the same question. However, then she asked, so I just outright told her and that I was waiting for marriage. And, while she did talk to me for a little longer, and chatting about how celibacy can often draw women in, it petered out.
My question is, how should I make it clear I am like this and not use frame?
If this has already been answered, feel free to delete this and send me a link to where it has been answered.
Thanks