"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Cloudtopsun2100
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tell her the connection was not emotional at all. girlfriends tend to get really pissed off about emotions and you the bf having feelings for a girl can outweigh the physical stuff you do. Hope she doesn't catch you.. good luck
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
GREAT WHITE SHARK
Master Don Juan
If you think, having a gf is not the same as being married.
when you are in a gf bf situation, you are still kinda free to experiment.
I realized that after my gf cheated on me, and I then knew I could do the same... experiment. .. I like her, maybe we will get married, maybe not, but today it is still a bf gf system, not a husband wife. Then its different, on this situation, cant there be cheating, otherwise the system is out of balance, there are problems.
My gf cheated on me, she regreated... but what I learned with that is I am "free" to do the same while we are not engaged.
If you are in a light ltr , go ahead, have fun, but respect at the same time the one person you are with.
The search for the one girl you wanna marry with will end some day, and how can you know who will be if you not try different ones?
Difficult to understand at the first time, but, thats life, thats people, it sucks? I dont know, but... thats the way it is...
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
What the hell does that mean?
Looks like you're just trying to find justification for cheating on a girlfriend when you're pretending to be committed to her.
If you want to sleep around and "experiment", there's nothing wrong with that. Just drop your gf before you do it.
J*sus Holy $hit Chr*st. NEVER ADMIT ANYTHING.
If you're fool enough to cheat, make sure that your partners have NO ties to each other. NO mutual friends, NO mutual hobbies. F-ck, I have a buddy who uses different names with different girlfriends to maintain plausible deniability -- if a girl walks up to him with his "other" in, say, Macy's, he can say, "I'm sorry, I'm not X. A lot of guys have my face." (I thought I had Game until I met this guy.)
Homey don't cheat, BTW; I DO, however, date 2-3 girls at a time, and when I do, I make sure to cross-reference their hobbies, clubs they hang at, workplaces, etc. I try not even to date two girls who live in the same 'burb at the same time.
GREAT WHITE SHARK
Master Don Juan
what if she admits that cheated and regreats?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
See, you think that if you cheat and bring it up that she had done the same to you before, that she'll get regretful and apologize?
ha ha ha
Rule #2423: women are NEVER wrong....according to women.
She will find some crazy justification to her cheating, and tell you that YOU were wrong and that since you cheated, she wants nothing to do with you...except for child support.
Yes, I think you opened a big can of worms.
So, follow THIS advice. THIS ADVICE IS IMPORTANT!
NEVER ADMIT TO CHEATING!!!!! If she "finds out", blame whoever told her...if it was the girl you were sleeping with, tell your girlfriend that this girl is a psycho that was obsessed with you or whatnot. Do whatever it takes to make yourself look innocent.
When you have convinced her of your "innocence", drop her. IF you are no longer sexually attracted to her, then the relationship is over. Do this without giving her the info that you cheated, because if she has that, she also has her hands in your bank account forever.
You should've dropped her sorry ass when she cheated on you the first time. Now look where your AFCness has gotten you....
Modelling is a way for a princessy girl with low self esteem to feel like she's sexy. Same with porn.
Those girls are only worth the semen in your glands. Not your love, affection, respect, trust, nothing. Just sex.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.